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Post by smith227 on Feb 21, 2019 21:48:17 GMT -5
smith227, have you ever talked to his ex wife and gotten her side of the story about what their marriage was like and why they split up? (Also, curious what she thought about the shrine to the old roommate.) Might be interesting perspective/food for thought. I just know that his he met his wife when she was 18 and he was 30. Together for 10 years, married after 9 and divorced 8 months later. The roommate was for 7 years before the ex wife. I’m assuming that he was probably his first wife’s first real relationship, and given the age difference, I’m sure he was in charge and maybe made her believe no sex was normal once in a relationship? Who knows? I found out early in our relationship that he would still text with his ex wife for hours a day every day. They have no kids, but the WONDERFUL cats he has, they bought together. So, I can assume they’re on good terms? I really don’t care about his past. I just care about my future.
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Post by jim44444 on Feb 23, 2019 9:29:40 GMT -5
smith227 , have you ever talked to his ex wife and gotten her side of the story about what their marriage was like and why they split up? (Also, curious what she thought about the shrine to the old roommate.) Might be interesting perspective/food for thought. I just know that his he met his wife when she was 18 and he was 30. Together for 10 years, married after 9 and divorced 8 months later. The roommate was for 7 years before the ex wife. I’m assuming that he was probably his first wife’s first real relationship, and given the age difference, I’m sure he was in charge and maybe made her believe no sex was normal once in a relationship? Who knows? I found out early in our relationship that he would still text with his ex wife for hours a day every day. They have no kids, but the WONDERFUL cats he has, they bought together. So, I can assume they’re on good terms? I really don’t care about his past. I just care about my future. Your future is the only thing you should care about now. It is what you can change by your actions today. Whether your H is gay or stupid or asexual or just crazy does not matter. Your future matters and it is yours to define.
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