Evidently I’m at fault Feb 15, 2019 20:29:22 GMT -5 via mobile
Post by smith227 on Feb 15, 2019 20:29:22 GMT -5
I’m at a loss. I recently moved into the guest room and my husband seems relieved? I have an exit plan in place, but it’s gping to take several months to prevent being homeless, which is fine. I’ve done this for a while now. The thing is, today my husband told me that the reason there’s no sex or affection or intimacy is bc he’s always on pins and needles bc he doesn’t know what to expect for me. This came after I moved a table in the living room today. A few days ago a guy that he works with left him a vinyl record at the door in the middle of the night, which I thought was weird. We stay up late and were up when he left t at the door. Why couldn’t he knock? Well, my husband was fucking giddy. Then he proudly displayed it on a table in the living room. He didn’t put it away with all his other records, he displayed it on a table like he’d just been given fresh flowers. I actually have made my living as an artist for most of my life. I have painted this man at least 10 pieces. None had made it to a wall or at the very least A TABLE. All have laid where I gave them to him until, I threw all of them away last month. He never even noticed. But a guy he works with leave him a record on the doorstep? My God that must be displayed. So, I took the whole table down. Which lead to the talk of how I’m the reason. He doesn’t know what he’s going to get with me, so he doesn’t try. Evidently all of his previous relationships were FLUSH with sex, affection and intimacy, so it’s just specific to me. I tried to talk but he’s a spin doctor, and I don’t play that game anymore. It ended with him saying he’s going to message my ex on Facebook to talk with him about my behavior. Sorry, if this is unreadable and rambling. I should go back and edit, but I don’t have it in me right now.