Oh my, greatcoastal , that is awesome! What a turn-around. There is life on the other side.
I had no idea what to expect going into the new year. idgaf96 was still on the six year plan, and I want to augment her life, not make things difficult. We had three nights together after Christmas, and talked about us and new years, how we could casually bump into each other and how could we keep our hands off each other? Well, she decided to ditch the Mission Impossible plans on her way home, and had "the talk" with her husband. It went, um, weird, but she held her ground. Most of her family knows, and the news is trickling through his. The kids will know, soon. That will be the hardest talk of all. The result on our New Years Eve was two fold, in that there was a bit more tension about the immediate future, but, we are stepping out of the shadows. Our new years kiss was pretty public.
I pop in and out of the forum and just read your news ironhamster ! Wishing you and idgaf96 much happiness! When did this all happen??? :-)
Well, a lot of it has been gradual, but the rubber has now hit the road as of December 30. This is going to be difficult. Her kids are younger, and we do not want them to have the impression that I am wrecking their world.