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Post by smith227 on Jan 11, 2019 21:18:19 GMT -5
I get this in spades. After waiting so long for actual touch, then it lasting about 2 minutes. Then resetting to roommates for however long he chooses to wait before he touches me with his penis ONLY for a couple mins again. I’ve cut it off completely. Told him we don’t act like a couple outside of the bedroom so why do we occasionally act like one in the bedroom. Makes me feel less rejected all of the time. However, now I’m being called the refuser bc in his eyes having 2 minutes of sex with no kissing, foreplay, or touching every couple of months constitutes a romantic relationship. I’ve told him I need more, he doesn’t care, so why should I? It’s all depressing.
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Post by tirefire on Jan 13, 2019 9:45:44 GMT -5
That's awful, darktippedrose . Did the lack of kissing and affection make you feel more distant from him? I'm guessing it would. Admittedly I'm white myself, but I never thought there was a racial element to kissing. I'm half white and half arab, and he claims that its something that only white women like. He doesn't like mixed kids like me. So .... yeah. Feeling distanced from my husband is a culmination of things. NO nonsexual intimacy. Him getting meaner to the kids. Him blatantly admitting, almost boasting about the other women he slept with, etc. I still have yearnings just not from him. I don't think I can love him or feel loved by him. I know he won't change but getting away from him can be quite tricky. So he's racist on top of being a general dirtbag towards you. Get out now and find the right one of the millions of men who would treasure you for being you and would thrill to give you all the pleasure you deserve. (I know it's not always so simple -sorry)
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