@ deadzone ... You made me chuckle! I may just go buy myself something nice after all! That said, big blow up over the weekend and a reset right before Christmas may work to my advantage this year. Now he feels badly and will want to make it up to me. I may score in the bedroom and under the tree! lol! I will enjoy it while it lasts. Sadly, it never lasts quite long enough. :/ Enjoy your new toys!!
I actually saw your post about the blow up after I commented. You're exactly right; enjoy it while it lasts! AND under the tree?? Well, Merry Christmas to you! Props to you for at least having that dialogue and telling him how you feel and how he humiliated you. In most cases we know where things will eventually end up after a reset, but like you said, the more you have those conversations, the easier it is for you to picture yourself doing what you need to do for you. Who knows, maybe 2019 will be a better year for many of us ILIASM sufferers, one way or another.
@ deadzone ... " under the tree!" Ha! Haven't done it under the tree since we started dating! Sigh ... why it gotta change? Oh well, here's to a more fulfilling 2019 for all of us!
Thank you all so much. I made it thru the day and it wasn't horrible. Time to go home to my "roommate". He will have a peck on the lips and hot cup of tea waiting for me. I will listen to him about his day, then we will discuss the kids' days, and retreat to our silent corners. Sigh ........
Hugs, and Support - many of our friends here wrote to you. I hope things improve for you. Unfortunately time is of essence and at least in my case there's clarity that nothing much is changing. I am writing to support and hope you have clarity of direction (I am trying to find it as well)
Your eyes cannot see, what your mind does not know.
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
Jan 25, 2019 22:36:50 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5
tamara68: Today it's steak and blowjob day! I suppose the steak is for those who don't get a blowjob.
Mar 14, 2019 16:49:49 GMT -5
petrushka: tamara68 Laughing with tears in my eyes. And my steak is going to be semolina gruel, due to some tummy upset :-\
Mar 15, 2019 1:11:10 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: So sad to hear the news from New Zealand. Boston Strong supports Kiwi Strong!!
Mar 15, 2019 7:46:22 GMT -5
petrushka: I was gobsmacked when I heard. This is just not us. In all of 2017 we had 37 murders in the country ..... I think the echo chambers of "social media" have a lot to answer for.
Mar 15, 2019 18:45:45 GMT -5
baza: Feeling for our Brothers and Sisters across the ditch Brother petrushka .
Mar 15, 2019 19:27:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: petrushka, I thought I read the headline wrong (this stuff happens here, not in NZ). It is frightening the hate that is being spread; it makes my heart hurt.
Mar 15, 2019 20:46:54 GMT -5
saarinista: All of us, IMHO, should try to be civil and kind as much as possible in person and online. I actively Tweet (civilly) on political matters and am horrified by the rancor & trolling on both sides of the spectrum, which only inflames unstable people.
Mar 19, 2019 23:21:20 GMT -5
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5