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Post by sadkat on Aug 25, 2019 16:57:21 GMT -5
deadzone75 isthisit- I love that the two of you are at it again here too! 😘. Makes for much more entertaining this or that questions!
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Post by sadkat on Aug 25, 2019 17:03:01 GMT -5
Happiness or Wealth- Happiness Funny or Romantic- that’s a tough one. Funny might have the slight edge. Personal Chef or Personal Trainer- Personal Trainer Charging or Pay with Cash- Charging so I can earn points! Gold or Silver- Silver Blanket or Comforter- Comforter Basket or Box- Basket Art Festival or Music Festival- probably music Football or Baseball- Football Comedy or Horror- Comedy Earlobes or Back of the knees- neither, really.
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Post by deadzone75 on Aug 25, 2019 17:32:28 GMT -5
deadzone75 isthisit - I love that the two of you are at it again here too! 😘. Makes for much more entertaining this or that questions! Alas, I could never be her chef, as I can't really cook. But I could pour a bowl of cereal while wearing budgie smugglers, then throw it on the floor and ravish her body.
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Post by isthisit on Aug 25, 2019 20:03:59 GMT -5
deadzone75 isthisit - I love that the two of you are at it again here too! 😘. Makes for much more entertaining this or that questions! Alas, I could never be her chef, as I can't really cook. But I could pour a bowl of cereal while wearing budgie smugglers, then throw it on the floor and ravish her body. Good enough. I could give you a workout wearing my yoga pants 😘.
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Post by deadzone75 on Aug 25, 2019 20:25:59 GMT -5
Alas, I could never be her chef, as I can't really cook. But I could pour a bowl of cereal while wearing budgie smugglers, then throw it on the floor and ravish her body. Good enough. I could give you a workout wearing my yoga pants 😘. I bet you could. My vivid imagination serves me quite well.
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Post by isthisit on Aug 25, 2019 20:27:20 GMT -5
Good enough. I could give you a workout wearing my yoga pants 😘. I bet you could. My vivid imagination serves me quite well. Enjoy 😘
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Post by warmways on Aug 25, 2019 21:44:47 GMT -5
Happiness or wealth?happiness Funny or romantic?funny Personal Chef or Personal Fitness Trainer? personal fitness trainer Charging or pay with cash?cash Gold or Silver?gold Blanket or comforter? Comforter Basket or box?basket Art festivals or music festivals?music festivals Football or baseball?baseball Comedy or horror?comedy Earlobes or the back of your knee? Earlobes
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Post by spencer on Aug 30, 2019 14:56:16 GMT -5
Happiness or wealth? Happiness Funny or romantic? Funny Personal Chef or Personal Fitness Trainer? Personal Chef Charging or pay with cash? Charging Gold or Silver? Silver Blanket or comforter? comforter Basket or box? box Art festivals or music festivals? music festivals Football or baseball? baseball Comedy or horror? Comedy Earlobes or the back of your knee? Earlobes
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Post by solodriver on Sept 1, 2019 17:55:57 GMT -5
isthisit feeling your pain my H was miserable the 6 month after I told him but was still there. I've been out since June if 2017. I had to go through counseling to stay strong. I even planned a trip for all of us to Florida for after I was out trying to prove it would be ok. I put off filing. Nothing helped he is still miserable I still get numerous emails a day. I'm afraid he will lose his job. But I had to totally detach from him for my own health. Becareful you aren't feeding his emotional dependence. I feel like in prolonged the agony instead of making it easier. I emotionally detached from my wife in June and it has helped a little because I don't have emotional angry reactions to her stuff anymore. I just don't care anymore. And knowing I'm working on my exit plan. It has helped me focus on myself and not to focus on her crap.
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Post by solodriver on Sept 1, 2019 18:00:23 GMT -5
Question for today- When do you feel the most vulnerable? When trying to deal with my ex"s depression. I'm soft hearted and I get sucked in or feel anxious almost guilty . My wife did the same thing to me and I got suckered in because she used my soft caring heart AGAINST me by her excuses for not wanting to have sex or intimacy - having a SM. I just didn't realize it until I came on here and came to terms with it about a year ago. Now I'm angry at myself for allowing it to happen instead of seeing the red flags as long as 20 years ago and allowing it to continue. That was MY fault for letting her do that to me.
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Post by sadkat on Sept 30, 2019 23:24:37 GMT -5
If you knew that you would be having sex today after a very long dry spell, what is the first thing you’d do?
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Post by deadzone75 on Oct 1, 2019 0:39:41 GMT -5
If you knew that you would be having sex today after a very long dry spell, what is the first thing you’d do? If it was with my W, I'd already be worrying about how long it would be until the next time.
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Post by Handy on Oct 1, 2019 1:32:26 GMT -5
Paying attention to my grooming and finding out what the woman liked.
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Post by worksforme2 on Oct 1, 2019 8:03:56 GMT -5
If you knew that you would be having sex today after a very long dry spell, what is the first thing you’d do? If it was with my W, I'd already be worrying about how long it would be until the next time. I can use this post to answer the question. The last 2 yrs. or so I had little success initiating. My then W initiated every 3 months, as regular as a dividend check from my stocks. So I knew I would be getting lucky again in 3 months, so I could start planning.
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Post by DryCreek on Oct 1, 2019 9:57:59 GMT -5
If you knew that you would be having sex today after a very long dry spell, what is the first thing you’d do? Matching underwear, of course! Then, pineapple. Unless you meant with W... for her, I’d get up and make coffee. She’d appreciate that more.
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