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Post by baza on Dec 3, 2018 22:43:15 GMT -5
Here's another sample of 10 members after 2 years membership here. Qualification = to have joined in December 2016 and made at least one post. joy6016 - last post Dec 2016 - inactive ceder357 - last post Dec 2016 - inactive Mr. Positive - last post Oct 2017 - staying ocleftwinger - last post Dec 2016 - inactive southerngirl - last post Jan 2017 - staying sarita - last post Dec 2016 - inactive heartbrokengirl - last post Nov 2018 - left (revised on the advice of member today 15 Feb 2019) whuffo - last post Nov 2018 - staying harveyspecter - last post Dec 2016 - inactive mrigman - last post Dec 2016 - inactive 6 of the members have gone inactive so we do not know what their status is now. 3 of the members are staying in their ILIASM deal. 1 of the members has left their marriage. And again, no examples of where the ILIASM deal "turned around". Footnote - heartbrokengirl was originally counted as "staying". She advised that she has actually left.
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Post by richfairy72 on Feb 14, 2019 13:25:28 GMT -5
I believe I joined Dec 28th 2016 but lurked for a month or so before that. In case anyone doesn't know my story, I separated from my ex husband in March 2017. This forum literally saved my life. It transpired I had lived with emotional (and ultimately physical) abuse for 24 years. I have gone from strength to strength. Was it easy? NO!!! but with a lot of support and work on my self esteem, I am in such a better place. In fact, I need to occasionally look back on my old posts to remind me how bad things were.
Not sure how this fits in with Baza's stats but I think I could be classed as a forum success story.
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Post by shamwow on Feb 14, 2019 13:28:36 GMT -5
Pretty sure I was in this group as well. You can put me down as "got the fuck out and wish I'd done it sooner"
And, this place also literally saved my life.
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Post by heartbrokengirl on Feb 14, 2019 22:58:13 GMT -5
baza , you can put me in the "leaving/left" category. I owe this forum an update, but we separated in October 2018, and I filed for divorce in January 2019. I've never been happier. I wish I'd done it sooner too, shamwow .
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Post by sadkat on Feb 14, 2019 23:02:38 GMT -5
baza , you can put me in the "leaving/left" category. I owe this forum an update, but we separated in October 2018, and I filed for divorce in January 2019. I've never been happier. I wish I'd done it sooner too, shamwow . I’m so happy for you heartbrokengirl! Congratulations on having the courage to take that hard first step!
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Post by baza on Feb 15, 2019 0:16:30 GMT -5
baza , you can put me in the "leaving/left" category. I owe this forum an update, but we separated in October 2018, and I filed for divorce in January 2019. I've never been happier. I wish I'd done it sooner too, shamwow . Thanks heartbrokengirl . I have edited the post to reflect this change.
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Post by choosinghappy on Feb 19, 2019 19:01:44 GMT -5
baza , you can put me in the "leaving/left" category. I owe this forum an update, but we separated in October 2018, and I filed for divorce in January 2019. I've never been happier. I wish I'd done it sooner too, shamwow . I am really happy to read this heartbrokengirl. I hope things are going smoothly for you and I’m so glad you are happy.
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