Post by greatcoastal on Jan 8, 2019 10:58:28 GMT -5
Does she have any needs?
Yes, ( there's a lot more going on here than - she gives me a great BJ, or I treat her like no man ever has) she tells me " I am tired of cleaning houses, I would like to be a nurse, I have the money for it."
Fortunately I have homeschooled my 6 kids, I have helped them look for jobs, and advanced education.
I sit down with my new friend and I go on line for her ( she doesn't own a computer, she has been that isolated) I show her our local community college's website. I tell her " look there are 6 different degrees in nursing, read about them. Scroll down, here it shows most frequently asked questions". She reads all of it ,and gets excited with hope!
I then ask her " have you ever seen the college? Do you know where it is?" her answer is " no". I ask " would you like to go see it?" She says, " lets go". I show her the campus. I tell her " My teens go to school here. They take college classes while they are in H.S."
All new ground for her. It's wonderful to be around someone with drive and ambition. I hope I am planting seeds.
If we go separate ways I have lost nothing. In fact ,I gain from a feeling of joy from giving, and know that this time, I received as well.
Post by northstarmom on Jan 8, 2019 11:17:42 GMT -5
Gc: sounds like you and she are a great fit! Very happy for you. Yes, it’s wonderful to be in a relationship in which you both get to give what you enjoy giving and you get to take what you enjoy taking.
As a person like you who enjoys helping people achieve their dreams (I’ve mentored a lot of young people) , I empathize with how much it means to you to be able to help a person who’s working to achieve her dreams, not using her dreams to leech off or manipulate you.
For the vast majority of you that read this I truly understand if you really DON'T care too much for juicy details about new found sex, and how PERFECT it is!
Well, I don't know about the "vast majority," but I for one, have enjoyed every word of your story about your new girlfriend. From the juicy details about your sex life (60 orgasms a day?! I don't think my wife has had 60 orgasms in her whole life!) to the more romantic or relationshippy things, like having her lie down on your lap, and the communication and trust issues.
I'm really happy for you. It's great to hear when someone really turns their situation around for the better. It's inspirational, and we can all learn from each other's experience.
Life after death? Sounds like you died and went to heaven!
GC, TMI?? NO way. Like Jamesbonding poster, "It's inspirational."
Like a few other men on the ILIASM forum we experienced the starvation diet for so long, that is what we think is the norm. Knowing there are more compatible relationships out there, it gives me hope.
And your GF having 60 orgasms, I only wish I was so lucky. My W gave up trying to "O" a long time ago. BTW keep up the bedroom or where ever you two have sex activities, until you or her start walking a little bit abnormally, you from sore nuts and her from whatever.
Post by greatcoastal on Jan 28, 2019 19:56:34 GMT -5
Another fantasy come true!
The other day I woke up at 5:00am. My new lover/girlfriend, naked beside me. I had to use the bathroom ( a typical event) .However this time my eyes felt much heavier than normal, but something very special came to mind?
It was raining outside!
Fortunately my new girlfriend/lover is ready to go at anytime ( she claims that's how Italian women are!) So I said to her" would you come out on the back porch with me?" She said " of course".
It was a steady rain, not too windy and a temp. in the low 60's. There's enough fences and trees to give us privacy, while having plenty of open space.
We both enjoyed our moment of standing naked together! Me behind her, taking her arms and wrapping them behind my neck, me kissing her cheek, neck and ears! slowly caressing her most intimate, sensitive areas!
Then proceeding back to the bed, holding each other and warming each other, only to feel so relaxed and fulfilled and fall back asleep for another hour! Then to talk about how wonderful that was! And to then be even more motivated to please each other!
Such fantasy moments are now more priceless than ever!
It's sad how many of the fine, wonderful, giving ,people on this forum don't get to be appreciated for wanting to do such things with their partner. I remember my decades, all to well. My years of standing outside, knowing a storm was coming, and thinking" how awesome this would be to have someone to share it with?"
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