Mr Jones This was a club I never expected to be in.
That is so common. Faithful, dedicated, hard working people were thrown a curve ball and believed in forever. It is difficult for some people to change their moral outlook and they wind up feeling very alone and go wanting.
Only after becoming frustrated or seriously depressed, other options gain appeal.
Not sure, probably not. Nothing against all you other guys and guyettes but I an a shy and retiring creature. Mind you the usual caveat remains, any young, blonde nymphomaniacs who made their millions through the brewery business are always welcome!
lessingham, don't be shy. We are all just friends that we haven't met in person. I speculate the people on ILIASM have told more about them-self than than to their current spouse.
The best ice tea in town is at any McDonald's and I am buying. Come one or come all. Yea, I know I live in po-dunk-ville better known as the sticks, the town with very long roads between houses, and out on the open prairie.
A local joke is there are 3 trees east of town and we call it the ____ forest.
I will find a mcdonalds and drink an ice tea to you all them. I think it would be nice to meet up with people who have walked the walk but I would love advice, tips and coping strategies. That would be the best part. Not sure if being advised to get out of the marriage is the avenue for me yet. Would not like to meet as a hook up exercise either.
lessingham, meeting for a drink at McDonald's is a diversion to what we are missing at home. This forum is about the only place real/usable advice is dispensed and most of ILIASM chatter is not going to make much difference improving the marital relationship.
Me going to anyplace is so I get out of the house, get some exercise and meet people that have a pleasant demeanor. It is a lot better than feeling the tension and isolation at home. I also discover new interests when people talk about their life. I hope I do the same for the people I talk with.
I haven't had anything close to a sexual hook-ups but I have connected with a few people and become interested a little bit about what makes then happy. If I actually came across a romantic hook-up I would be very cautious and evaluate the pluses and minuses for both parties. There would have to be several strong benefits and almost no down side for each of us for it to become serious or very involved. I am risk aversive and have been too responsible all of my life and I have to work at having a lighter outlook on life.
BTW, I really don't get the ideal situations to meet new people (other customers)all that often. If I go 3x a week, maybe I only hit it off with less than 1 person a month and that is usually a short encounter and rarely do I see the same person that we had something in common. That is my 3 year experience. I do sort of build a relationship with some of the older employees. My grand kids work at some of the Mickey D's locations so that is another reason I ride my bike there and touch base with them.
frednsa: i saw something on the wedding night (in the 60's) should have ended it during the honeymoon. i was played so perfectly. she is so wonderful in almost every other way, so...still wondering...thinking frigidity is a real thing and untreatable
Aug 29, 2019 12:07:04 GMT -5
worksforme2: Tomorrow is Labor Day 2019, no big plans for the day....thinking seriously of going commando
Sept 1, 2019 11:37:07 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey ironhamster...I just saw your picture on another site and your head wasn't covered. You actually look better without the bandana....
Sept 2, 2019 11:54:55 GMT -5
javba: Dunno Iron Hamster - I have not seen your other photo - I think you ROCK anyways.
Sept 4, 2019 10:11:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happened across Tamara68 on another site, messaged her but she didn't respond...
Sept 15, 2019 13:13:02 GMT -5
elkclan2: Dealing with an escaped gerbil. Fun times.
Sept 16, 2019 13:01:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: 1. Hope tamara is doing well. 2. Elkclan2, did you catch the critter???
Sept 17, 2019 15:40:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Tamara answered me yesterday. She and her partner are moving into a house next week. It's probably about as good as is possible. She didn't comment on the situation with her daughter.
Sept 17, 2019 17:46:02 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Thanks for the update; just hope she is happy
Sept 17, 2019 19:49:55 GMT -5
workingonit: Elkclan2 my son's gerbil escaped at the same time as his pet snake. I did not think it was a coincidence!
Sept 17, 2019 20:40:26 GMT -5
hopingforachange: Wow, is been forever since I read the shoutbox.
Sept 17, 2019 21:33:01 GMT -5
hopingforachange: I need to set up another Skype session.
Sept 17, 2019 21:33:16 GMT -5
sme935: Not quite sure if anyone reads it but if there is a female in the Chicago area (40-60 years old) who is interested in chatting with me drop me a message or look at my profile for messenger screenname;
Sept 19, 2019 9:09:33 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Another Skype session would be great!
Sept 21, 2019 10:51:02 GMT -5