I’ve been with my roommate for around 2 years and we may have kissed a handful of times. It’s awkward and personally I avoid it as much as he does now. We do nothing beyond exist in the same house. It’s miserable. However, he does show daily affection to his two cats. Our entire house smells of cat piss, and I wake up to at least 4 piles of cat vomit every day. The carpet is destroyed, and I can’t have anything nice. I haven’t cleaned anything beside my bedroom where the door stays shut and locked in 6 months and neither has he, so it wasn’t surprising when a co worker asked me if I had cats last week. I reek of cat piss, bc he must have cats and won’t clean up after them and I refuse to bc they’re not my cats and they make my skin crawl. So, no. We don’t kiss.
Post by AphroditesChela on Apr 8, 2019 15:17:03 GMT -5
I tried kissing on greetings and leave takings (4 times/day). My Isadora responds with a quick, dismissive "let's get this over with" peck and that really hurts so I only try every couple of days when I feel I can risk the hurt.
Post by angeleyes65 on Apr 8, 2019 18:56:59 GMT -5
I'm out now but only when he left for work because it was hard to escape and only a peck. We used to when we went to bed I never initiated. I started waiting for him to get in bed first hoping he would fall asleep . One night he wasn't actually sleeping. He sat up and said don't you want a kiss. I said not really that was the end of that lol. Don't ask questions you don't want an answer to. He would always ask if I missed him when he went on trips. I said no. He got mad. It is what it is.
W hates to kiss more than a few pecks; always has. As an ignorant, nerdy, 20-year old, I thought this was a good thing... a hot gal who skipped all the mushy stuff and foreplay, and just got down to sex with no warmup. Jackpot?
I was looking too superficially, and didn’t realize that intimacy was missing - that’s actually the thing she doesn’t like; kissing is just collateral damage because it’s too intimate.
Back in the day H was a super kisser and it was totally divine. This slowly dwindled to kisses akin to those you’d give your maiden aunt. I tried to bring this up casually, more directly and famously when asked what I would like for my birthday replied ‘I’d like to be kissed like a woman please’ FOR THREE YEARS RUNNING to no avail, got a jumper instead. Stopped asking after the third year and accepted that the simple joy of a sexy kiss was no longer part of my life. Now I am out I am looking forward to having some lovely kissing back in my life one day. Just the possibility raises my spirits, imagine what the reality will do?!
Post by michaeljames on Apr 19, 2019 9:12:08 GMT -5
I have been with my W for 6 years, married for 2. We have never really kissed deeply, only lip pecks. Until 3 days ago. She opened up and said that kissing deeply was something she was really missing and something she would like to have in our relationship.
She said I was a horrible kisser because she thinks I don't know what I am doing (funny, I felt the same about her) but she said she would be willing to teach me and practice.
We have kissed once more since then. Not making out, just a short, but deep kiss.
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