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Post by Handy on Sept 18, 2018 10:19:28 GMT -5
Saarinista unfortunately, it's very common. 😩
I asked the UPS delivery guy if my wife had the most deliveries. He said there were women in the neighborhood that got as many or slightly more deliveries, so yes it isn't that rare.
A small up side to retail therapy, some of the items go to thrift stores so other people get the items an only pay 10 or 20 cents on the dollar for some slightly used items.
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Post by javba on Sept 18, 2018 10:25:28 GMT -5
Saarinista unfortunately, it's very common. 😩I asked the UPS delivery guy if my wife had the most deliveries. He said there were women in the neighborhood that got as many or slightly more deliveries, so yes it isn't that rare. A small up side to retail therapy, some of the items go to thrift stores so other people get the items an only pay 10 or 20 cents on the dollar for some slightly used items. Do they take slightly used husbands ?? Or they have slightly used wives there?
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Post by javba on Sept 18, 2018 10:28:06 GMT -5
I've tried getting drunk - does not work I pass out soon. She does not want to get drunk
Hello Porn :-)
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Post by Handy on Sept 18, 2018 10:36:40 GMT -5
The thrift stores take volunteers for several hours a week but no over nights and nothing permanent. It is a good place to meet people serving mandated community service, some people with disabilities (physical and mental) and some people really dedicated to the less fortunate financially. The bargain stores also provide employment history for some people that haven't held a stable job for a long time.
One down side for my wife would be she couldn't lay on the couch and watch TV most of the day. Thrift stores need bodies that move.
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Post by nyctos on Sept 18, 2018 15:35:31 GMT -5
My wife initiated sex a number of times, all when she was trying to get pregnant. We didn't take my suggested method for getting pregnant, which was to fuck every day until she was pregnant. Instead she calculated the exact day and time in which she was "most fertile" every month and then made her move. Never any more then that. It took over a year for her to get pregnant with both kids. I'm sure it was living hell for her to have to have intercourse with me all those extra times. My wife did the same, though she also insisted it be as short as possible with no foreplay, supposedly to increase the chances of having a girl. She got pregnant within three months each time. We had three boys. Other than that, she initiated once since the year 2000, so I can't really answer the poll either.
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Post by worksforme2 on Sept 18, 2018 21:11:16 GMT -5
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Post by javba on Sept 18, 2018 21:19:23 GMT -5
The spouse in a sexless marriage AKA the fuckless fucker
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Post by jamesbonding on Sept 18, 2018 22:50:23 GMT -5
The spouse in a sexless marriage AKA the fuckless fucker I had that question too. SLM = SexLess Marriage? SLM = SM?
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 19, 2018 9:46:11 GMT -5
Sadly the only "fucking" going on is with your mind. Mental abuse is devastating. Fortunately YOU can recover. You can look up 'greysexual' I don't think you will learn much if you google 'fucking irritating'. (lol) Part of the 'unraveling' process is recognizing, " this person has problems and it affects me in a very bad way, I need healing." Then comes taking steps and planning. I wish you well on your journey! I read up on "greysexual" as you suggested. I don't think thats her, I think she is asexual. But thanks for the suggested reading. My experience (similar to yours) was that my ex was capable of having sex. She could have orgasms, she could initiate, ask for more of what she wanted, actively participate (on a low level) enough to 'get the job done' when it came time to participate after marriage. Then it slowed down. Then to procreate when needed. That is not asexual. My ex's exact words in therapy when asked about sex and intimacy where: "I don't see the need for it, it's not necessary, it doesn't matter to me, it's not important, I can take it or leave it". Definitely a control issue as well. Then there's all the rest. Unravelling ALL of the past going back to childhood. I can't do that. My ex will have to face that and control that completely different on her own.
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