I found the article to be so so. However the comments are a steady litany of bitter voices from those who have not yet reconciled with the failed relationships. Sure their exes where/are narcissistic assholes but which of us are flawless? IMO GC, you are ahead of the curve.
"Of all men's miseries the bitterest is this: to know so much and to have control over nothing." - Herodotus