I have gotten into this lately. I know, I know - I am always the one that comes up with this tripe.
But! Try it! Seriously. It was scary accurate for me.
oh yeah, reading the questions, it's like it was written just for me. that test totally knows me. If only it had then told me what to do about all that.
I sense a vodka night - which I totally respect! I do know the questions seem silly - they are! However, besides my H (which I suspect didn’t answer honestly) I think my description, as well as a handful of friends - was spot on.
The assessment is dead-on. The problem is I know this about myself after long years of therapy. What I need is someone to tell me how to make a life that works with these traits instead of figjting against them.
Post by WindSister on Aug 29, 2018 16:42:09 GMT -5
My top three are Individualist Helper Peacemaker.
Yes..... this sure fits!!
Test was successfully created. Your Top Three Types are 4, 2 and 9. Read the descriptions of each type below to discover YOUR type! Type 4: The Individualist Individualists have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself. Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision. Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little. Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting! What I Like About Being a Four
My ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level. my ability to establish warm connections with people. Admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life. My creativity, intuition, and sense of humor. Being unique and being seen as unique by others. Having aesthetic sensibilities. Being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me. What's Hard About Being a Four
I bought a book on this about a year ago, it’s very interesting. I was strongest with 2&9, peacemaker and lover. I used the book like a workbook and in each chapter it gave statements and I highlighted the ones that applied to me from each number. I like this kind of thing.
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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5