They do, but my last broken heart took 5-years to heal. The real loves of your life take longer, but there are others who only take weeks or months to get over, and you wondered why you even bothered with them in the first place. This tells you you never really were in love with them, but the ones you truly love/ed take a very long time, but time heals. Hugs.
Post by WindSister on Aug 28, 2018 19:55:10 GMT -5
If you're really listening, if you're awake to the poignant beauty of the world, your heart breaks regularly. In fact, your heart is made to break; its purpose is to burst open again and again so that it can hold evermore wonders. Andrew Harvey
It doesn't help the pain, in the moment, but that quote feels like truth to me as I look back at my life's experiences.
Just sharing..... keep going, there's awesomeness to experience, too, if one is open to it.
Those who feel lovable, who love, and who experience belonging simply believe they are worthy of love and belonging. - Brene Brown
Post by richfairy72 on Sept 1, 2018 19:53:29 GMT -5
Elle. You will feel better. I had my heart broken by the man I thought was the love of my life 4 months ago. I thought I would never get over it. I'm still working on it but the first week was the worst. The pain will ease I promise.
Corny as it sounds, I worked through this website, and it was actually a life saver for me.....worth a look. It helped me just get through each hour to start with.
choosinghappy: Hope you had a great birthday h!
Sept 1, 2018 21:19:34 GMT -5
mrrobot: Hi guys, I don't know if this community is still active - if so, I posted a thread at the forum if anyone could give me some light I'd be really thankful! Cheers
Sept 2, 2018 7:48:17 GMT -5
georgia: Hi...I’ve just joined the group. And I simply need a place to vent and hopefully receive some help dealing with my utterly sexless marriage. After 15 years of marriage our sex life has dwindled to nada, zero, nothing.
Sept 3, 2018 14:48:18 GMT -5
kh: why even marry someone with a high libido if you hate sex
Sept 4, 2018 4:28:42 GMT -5
javba: kh - fast forward 2 kids and 20 years later I have not resolved the problem you're looking at. Now I have cracked 51 yrs, have lesser chances of finding someone, not as market-able. You may want to reconsider "child is 8 mon old" with a 50% divorce rate
Sept 4, 2018 10:07:57 GMT -5
DryCreek: mrrobot, georgia, kh - welcome! I see a couple of you have posted your stories in the forum. I think not a lot of folks use this chat because you can only see it on laptops, not on phones. georgia, please do post your story and vent here. We get it.
Sept 6, 2018 10:29:43 GMT -5