Post by solodriver on Aug 27, 2018 3:41:33 GMT -5
Recently you posted that it has been almost 7,000 days since you and your wife had sex. You and she sleep in separate bedrooms. You've posted that when you go out, she disparages you in front of others. You've also posted that when you recently got into bed with her to watch TV, she moved away from you and told you not to touch her.
Seems that at best you are living with a snarky roommate. Other than having a shared house and perhaps bank accounts, there doesn't seem to be much of a marriage. Sure, you may be legally married, but there doesn't seem to be any real evidence that your wife would welcome or even be just indifferent to your naked presence in her room. Given the way you've described her behavior, her comment to you seems in character. There is absolutely no evidence from what you've written that she treats you with the courtesy that you treat her.
You are correct my friend.
I do deserve so much better from a relationship.
I am resolved to leave this marriage.
The only thing that gets me through each day is my hope for the future as others have shared with me (including yourself).
This situation that happened Saturday did hurt me. I've been sad about it and it's been hard for me to absorb.
But like I titled this thread. ( I hope) it will be the last time I put myself in a situation for her to insult or hurt me like that.
But I will never (I hope) say such nasty things to her. I hope I'm a better person than that. But I will state the facts of the situation just have you have done with me, when the time comes.