It remains of concern that your clock, initially at 344 days (back in August 2018) has ticked off another 274 days and is now down to 70 days plus change, but still no legal advice (which everything else hangs off) Brother solodriver .
It might be a good idea to consult with your launch director to discuss whether it is possible to get everything done that needs to be done within the limited 70 days now available....or whether the countdown needs to be revised.
Anecdotally in this group, the clock usually runs at 90 days. That is to say, from the day you get your legal advice, it takes about another 90 days from then to work out the finer detail of when and how you are going to drop the bomb - THEN the hard practical work of putting your exit strategy into action begins. You are down to under 90 days (by your original schedule) That, is going to be real tough to achieve.
I will confirm this information during the attorney consult but, in the state I live in, I was told there is a 6 month waiting period from filing to court date. So at T-Minus 0 launch, it will be to have "The Talk", relocate myself and start a new life while awaiting the final divorce. I don't have to wait for the final divorce to do that; examples being shamwow, ballofconfusion, tirefire, choosinghappy, flashjohn and others.
On the other hand, if because of financial or logistical support system failures or both, I'm unable to leave on launch day, I will put the countdown clock on hold until those issues are cleared up to the point that the countdown can be resumed again. I'm feeling there is also a possibility that I may have to scrub the date and reset the date if I can't get the support I need to start the mission or, after the attorney consult, he/she feels I can't financially do this at this time.
Regardless, my plan is continue the countdown and move forward with the launch.
Last Edit: May 5, 2019 1:11:04 GMT -5 by solodriver
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