Grown men and video games Jul 27, 2018 8:51:51 GMT -5 via mobile
Post by shamwow on Jul 27, 2018 8:51:51 GMT -5
Are you joking? Assuming you have a full time job which keeps you out of the house all day until dinner time, and assuming you have kids to care for and play with before they go to bed, I would guess 3-4 hours of video games per day (and up to SIX hours on weekend days) means you are basically ignoring your wife until 11 or 12 every single night and then you complain that the way she treats YOU is the problem?
Based on that, why exactly do you think she should be eager to rip your clothes off? I wouldn’t fuck you either. Until you change that, enjoy your prostitutes.
I would be curious to know whether this frequency was the same at the beginning of the marriage.
If so, I see your point. However, I played just as many games when married. But I only started several years after she did the bait and switch at the altar.
After a few years of that, I had many such "hobbies" that would keep me out of that bed until 11 or 12 (or 2 or 3) because I didn't want to lie in the dark in depression and anger as she slept soundly next to me.
My guess is he is at the point where neither of them really want to be in each other's presence. Both have their "hobbies" to deal with that unpleasant truth.
The real losers in the situation are the kids who see this night after night and learn the lesson of "this is how marriage is". Hopefully they will learn the lesson of "this is not how marriage should be" and if they ever find themselves in a similar situation get the fuck out. At least that's what I hope my kids do in that situation.