Post by mypaintbrushes on Jul 21, 2018 20:49:07 GMT -5
**NOTE: I am well aware of my situation. Thanks much.**
As we speak, my husband is on his way to the airport to leave for Costa Rica for two weeks. This was to be a trip to celebrate my birthday, but back at the end of May, he announced in the car on the way back from the beach that I had been acting “cold “toward him, and so he had decided to withdraw the invitation.
This was a really long, difficult week, and there was some form or other of weirdness every single day. One of the most interesting happened on Wednesday, when he announced to me that he had discovered that I have borderline personality disorder, and that he is going to try to learn strategies for learning wit One of the most interesting happened on Wednesday, when he announced to me that he had discovered that I have borderline personality disorder, and that he is going to try to learn strategies for learning not to overreact to me and my unstable moods.
I am taking the next 12 days – until he comes back in town on August 3 – to work on getting my act together to determine where I’m going to be going – if anywhere. Maybe I will stay in the house? I do have plans to take a quick trip to Portland Oregon to visit with a friend for a couple of days next week.
I am so incredibly full of anger over all of events over the past 20 years. I feel like I’ve been robbed of the best years of my life, and then told that all of our financial difficulties, fights, family drama -&: lack of sex are my fault.
Wednesday morning, he came downstairs and the telehealth that he was going to go upstairs and jerk off and that he was “no longer hiding it” from me. Thursday morning, he rolled over as I woke up, steered me in the eye, and said “I’ve been hard all morning long… But, since you don’t like morning sex, I’m going to go masturbate.”
He did make mention of wanting to have sex with me, but only after bedtime... so if didn’t happen before he left. If I am being completely honest, I am not feeling attraction to him any longer, which scares me
Last week, he also sent an article to me on how to make an open marriage work… His parameters around it though are that it has to be a woman, and somebody that we both agree upon. I am not allowed to see another man.
Additionally, three of my friends gave me an intervention about my relationship. Feels like go time to me.
As we speak, my husband is on his way to the airport to leave for Costa Rica for two weeks. This was to be a trip to celebrate my birthday, but back at the end of May, he announced in the car on the way back from the beach that I had been acting “cold “toward him, and so he had decided to withdraw the invitation.
This was a really long, difficult week, and there was some form or other of weirdness every single day. One of the most interesting happened on Wednesday, when he announced to me that he had discovered that I have borderline personality disorder, and that he is going to try to learn strategies for learning wit One of the most interesting happened on Wednesday, when he announced to me that he had discovered that I have borderline personality disorder, and that he is going to try to learn strategies for learning not to overreact to me and my unstable moods.
I am taking the next 12 days – until he comes back in town on August 3 – to work on getting my act together to determine where I’m going to be going – if anywhere. Maybe I will stay in the house? I do have plans to take a quick trip to Portland Oregon to visit with a friend for a couple of days next week.
I am so incredibly full of anger over all of events over the past 20 years. I feel like I’ve been robbed of the best years of my life, and then told that all of our financial difficulties, fights, family drama -&: lack of sex are my fault.
Wednesday morning, he came downstairs and the telehealth that he was going to go upstairs and jerk off and that he was “no longer hiding it” from me. Thursday morning, he rolled over as I woke up, steered me in the eye, and said “I’ve been hard all morning long… But, since you don’t like morning sex, I’m going to go masturbate.”
He did make mention of wanting to have sex with me, but only after bedtime... so if didn’t happen before he left. If I am being completely honest, I am not feeling attraction to him any longer, which scares me
Last week, he also sent an article to me on how to make an open marriage work… His parameters around it though are that it has to be a woman, and somebody that we both agree upon. I am not allowed to see another man.
Additionally, three of my friends gave me an intervention about my relationship. Feels like go time to me.