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Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2018 15:52:53 GMT -5
My ex was like that. I used to think it was avoidance. Later, when I noticed he did that with everyone, I realized he is self centered. I once put this on the cartoon thread, and it describes my wife PERFECTLY.
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 8, 2018 17:07:20 GMT -5
There's a term you like, "self centered". Normally behind the fake mask of "self centered, me,me, me" is a person who is very afraid to show their deep ,true lack of self confidence (in reference to your wife) Sadly you have paid a hefty price for that all these years of pleasing her, while your own needs get shoved onto the back burner of a broken stove.. You deserve someone who has self confidence enough to be able to say "I was wrong, and I agree with you". (and truly mean it by showing it with their actions, not just word salad). Or, even if what you are talking about is not something they are all that interested in, they respect you enough to engage in a conversation about it.
Think of it this way , you are at a restaurant and are ready to order, you spend 95% of your time and effort flagging down the waiter who sees you,finally speaks to you, then tells you all about his car troubles and still doesn't take your order. You may go back to that restaurant (other woman, relationships) but you're certainly going to avoid that waiter and sit on the other side of the restaurant. You deserve to be treated better.
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