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Post by brian on Jan 29, 2018 18:18:45 GMT -5
Sorry all. Just feeling a bit confrontational tonight. I’ll calm down once I get home and have a beer or two.
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 14, 2019 7:05:15 GMT -5
Either way, it doesn't matter. It's a nice thought, and I've tried working with him on The Presentation of the Story. He won't own fault in front of the kids, and if there's ONE THING I FUCKING KNOW WITHOUT A DOUBT and everyone else here is in varying stages of ownership of this same thing: it's that you can not control another person. Now, I do believe my case is exceptional, in that, my Husband agrees that our marriage has been (a) sexless and (b) entirely because of his own doing. But getting him to own any fault in front of the kids, even as a softened G-rated version, it will never ever happen. Same here sister, same here!! Fortunately many of my children saw right through it, and agree about my spouse treating them, manipulating them in the same way. (Scratch that. They have been victims of the FOG too. It took some deep sharing for them to realize and see many of the same things being done to them) It's like a light bulb went on for them! Then I have one who just want's to live in denial and is more interested in who can give him the most $$$ benefit. HMMM things he learned from his mother? I may never be able to change that. back to "to thine own self be true" and be available for when and if the day ever comes. Reminds me of the prodigal son. A year later and look at the progress!! ( I would love an update) I know I personally am making better choices, with new people. My kids (that are with me) like having far less tension, and fakeness in the house. My daughters have enough of their own problems ( boyfriends at school, or not having a boy friend at school) , so my meeting at the house today with my girlfriend will take place while they are at school. ( I also have my home alone with my girlfriend, every week when my daughters are with the ex)
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Feb 14, 2019 9:35:58 GMT -5
Happy Valentine's Day to those who have a reason to celebrate it. I wish I were one of them, I like Valentine's Day as I am pretty good at coming up with romantic ways of treating a lady well on such a day. Of course, that's not happening this year, just like the last 17 years. Tomorrow I will go to the store and buy myself one of those hearts full of chocolates for 50% off and share it with my kids. When they ask me if I think mom wants any I'll tell them she's on a diet and we should be respectful of that. Lol!
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Post by northstarmom on Feb 14, 2019 10:58:18 GMT -5
When I was in my sm I’d book a nice spa experience for myself to ensure I got TLC.
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Post by elkclan2 on Feb 14, 2019 11:33:02 GMT -5
Tonight we're moving the gerbils into their new gerbilarium. That's pretty exciting.
I bought my guy a gerbilzilla t-shirt. It's ridiculous, but he will really like it. I don't know if he's managed to get me anything. He brought me coffee in bed this morning and we had hot sex. He told me happy Valentine's Day first thing. I'm happy with that. I did suggest a Jewish cookbook. I hope he does get me that because I really want it. If he doesn't get it for me, I will get it for myself.
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 14, 2019 13:04:23 GMT -5
Valentine's Day can suck my dick.
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Post by choosinghappy on Feb 14, 2019 13:49:15 GMT -5
Valentine's Day can suck my dick. Aww don’t be like that deadzone75. Here, I have a Valentine for you:
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Post by choosinghappy on Feb 14, 2019 13:51:53 GMT -5
And because I’m a good sport (and this one’s hilarious), I’ll mock my own team now too:
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 14, 2019 14:38:02 GMT -5
Valentine's Day can suck my dick. Aww don’t be like that deadzone75. Here, I have a Valentine for you: When I throw myself off an overpass, I'm blaming you. 😱 I can at least get myself off tonight, but there's nothing I can do about my football team.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 14, 2019 14:41:04 GMT -5
Aww don’t be like that deadzone75. Here, I have a Valentine for you: When I throw myself off an overpass, I'm blaming you. 😱 I can at least get myself off tonight, but there's nothing I can do about my football team. You two are cracking me up this Valentines Day!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2019 17:29:43 GMT -5
When I throw myself off an overpass, I'm blaming you. 😱 I can at least get myself off tonight, but there's nothing I can do about my football team. You two are cracking me up this Valentines Day! Ditto! I'm dying here laughing! Sorry it's such a rough day @deadzone Hope it gets better.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2019 17:29:57 GMT -5
When I throw myself off an overpass, I'm blaming you. 😱 I can at least get myself off tonight, but there's nothing I can do about my football team. You two are cracking me up this Valentines Day! Ditto! I'm dying here laughing! Sorry it's such a rough day @deadzone Hope it gets better.
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 14, 2019 19:45:44 GMT -5
You two are cracking me up this Valentines Day! Ditto! I'm dying here laughing! Sorry it's such a rough day @deadzone Hope it gets better. Thank you And it will. I wined and dined myself on pork chops and peas, and I've been flirting with myself for the last two hours. I lit a candle in the office to set the mood...looks like I'm going to solo score tonight!
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Post by workingonit on Feb 14, 2019 19:48:26 GMT -5
Ditto! I'm dying here laughing! Sorry it's such a rough day @deadzone Hope it gets better. Thank you And it will. I wined and dined myself on pork chops and peas, and I've been flirting with myself for the last two hours. I lit a candle in the office to set the mood...looks like I'm going to solo score tonight! Lucky! Sound like a hot date
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 14, 2019 19:53:11 GMT -5
Thank you And it will. I wined and dined myself on pork chops and peas, and I've been flirting with myself for the last two hours. I lit a candle in the office to set the mood...looks like I'm going to solo score tonight! Lucky! Sound like a hot date Not to brag, but I am feeling pretty good. I've treated me so well today, I don't know that I'll be able to make it all the way through Superman Part 3 before I take myself...
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