elynne I think you should read this linked article. You might get some benefit out of learning about and examining your and your H’s attachment styles.
I’ve read and reread it. Interestingly h got mad at me for pulling back. It seems he likes being pursued. Me- I don’t so much enjoy the pursuing and being pushed away.
Of course you don't enjoy it! Women want to be pursued just like for most men like the hunt and the challenge. It's the way we are wired. In a healthy relationship this dynamic works. It sounds like you guys are incompatible, to say the least.
handy: Cutiecakes, I see you posted on another forum. How about copying that other post and place it here. It hase some very relevant information and I think this forum will be of more help.
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worksforme2: Watching the funeral....RIP George Herbert Walker Bush
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worksforme2: Man oh man, look at all that snow. Looks like snow cream is going to be on the menu today.
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