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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2017 9:35:40 GMT -5
After all, this is the important question, right?
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Post by northstarmom on Dec 25, 2017 9:39:03 GMT -5
I’m less happy overall but its not due to my relationship. Post sm relationship is strong and happy and going on 5 years! I’ve had health problems, job problems and the state of my country has broken my heart. My relationship has been a source of support and encouragement, the kind I never would have had with my ex.
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Post by wewbwb on Dec 25, 2017 9:39:52 GMT -5
While I am happier , it has nothing to do with the Frigidaire or the marriage .
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Post by misssunnybunny on Dec 25, 2017 9:58:20 GMT -5
I feel like I am about the same as last year; still single and I have some job issues, but overall life is pretty good.
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 25, 2017 10:00:14 GMT -5
I'm a mixed bag. I'm certainly having way more sex and the relationship with my partner is satisfying emotionally. Other aspects,....hmmmm..not so much. Like northstarmom I despair about the state of hatred and animosity that seems to permeate our politics here in the USA.
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Post by M2G on Dec 25, 2017 10:07:07 GMT -5
Mixed bag here too - I'd been pretty stoic about my SM over the years, basically suffering in silence until I surfed onto EP then ended up here.
Because of the ending up here part, I do feel quite a bit happier knowing I'm not alone, and now have a support group like no other.
Happy Holidays all!
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Post by dinnaken on Dec 25, 2017 15:27:21 GMT -5
I'm a lot happier. This time last year I was desperately struggling to find the words and the way to end my marriage.
Thankfully on January 10th 2017 I found them.
All the very best to all of you for 2018
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Post by takestwototango on Dec 25, 2017 19:41:46 GMT -5
This holiday season started out a bit like last year, which was totally miserable. But things are starting to turn around a bit & I/we start counseling next month & he seems to be trying. So, I am a lot more hopeful now than I was this time last year.
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Post by h on Dec 25, 2017 21:27:35 GMT -5
I'm much happier now than I was last year. I'm learning to speak up for myself more and I have stopped blaming myself for things that aren't my fault.
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Post by Caris on Dec 25, 2017 21:35:27 GMT -5
I prefer to use the word “improved” or “better” than happy. I am better in certain ways than I was last year. I have improved in certain ways than last year. I’ve had a nice day, but the season is mixed with sadness missing my loved ones, so in that sense I can’t say I’m happy, but I am grateful, and I manage life better (in certain ways) than last year.
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Post by Caris on Dec 25, 2017 21:41:51 GMT -5
I’m less happy overall but its not due to my relationship. Post sm relationship is strong and happy and going on 5 years! I’ve had health problems, job problems and the state of my country has broken my heart. My relationship has been a source of support and encouragement, the kind I never would have had with my ex. Isn’t it ironic how two people who have this ILIASM experience in common, and can encourage and support each other here, feel the despair about their country (and in my case, the world), but for completely opposite reasons. Just a thought.
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Post by tsm on Dec 27, 2017 6:00:08 GMT -5
Yes I am Not ecstatic but I know I won't be dealing with my SM any more and that gives me hope for the future.
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Post by RumRunner on Dec 27, 2017 19:35:57 GMT -5
No I'm not. The last few months especially. I won't go into details but truthfully there hasn't been anything to look forward to.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2017 19:41:08 GMT -5
I am happier, and it took a lot of work.
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Post by hopingforachange on Dec 27, 2017 19:43:23 GMT -5
I am, by working on myself.
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