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Post by james on Dec 11, 2017 15:34:46 GMT -5
Went to see a lawyer today, second time I have taken advantage of an introductory meeting. I must say these are incredibly useful and informative, and I would strongly recommend anyway who has had enough of their SM to do likewise. Doesn't commit you to a thing. You get a bit nervous beforehand but so what? Well worth the effort. I asked her a few things, including: could my wife actually eject me from the house? I have been worried about this. I do *not* want to leave the family home, and I wasn't sure if my wife could just kick me out. Turns out she can't. We jointly own the house and so that's that. Quite empowering, I think. Anyway, at the end of the interview, curiosity overcame me and I asked her if she'd come across sexless marriages. Oh yes, she said, they are commoner than you might think, and a factor in many divorces that come through my office. In fact, she went on, just the other day, my best friend turned to me in the middle of an exercise class and a propos of absolutely nothing, said to me: "I haven't had sex with my husband in five years". Dunno why but I found this really funny (even though it is of course very sad). Maybe it was just the relief of sitting in front of a human being who had some inkling of what I was talking about. I think when it comes to it I'll ask her to help. What a star! (Even if she made the whole thing up to make me feel better).
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Post by wom360 on Dec 11, 2017 16:06:49 GMT -5
Did you get the friends number?
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Post by tori on Dec 11, 2017 19:06:40 GMT -5
Did you get the friends number? I was thinking the same! Lol!
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Post by baza on Dec 11, 2017 20:31:30 GMT -5
I would suggest that just about all relationships, as they tank, go sexless. Not just ILIASM deals.
I don't believe that there would be too many spouses still rooting each other silly on the courthouse steps as they divorce.
It seems that in faltering relationships, sex departs the scene as a matter of course. So I reckon your lawyer is right. It is way more common than you might think. In fact it is probably "usual" by the end stages.
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Post by ironhamster on Dec 12, 2017 0:18:18 GMT -5
I would suggest that just about all relationships, as they tank, go sexless. Not just ILIASM deals. I don't believe that there would be too many spouses still rooting each other silly on the courthouse steps as they divorce. It seems that in faltering relationships, sex departs the scene as a matter of course. So I reckon your lawyer is right. It is way more common than you might think. In fact it is probably "usual" by the end stages. Just about all, but not all. The first girl I was sexually active with in a relationship had a magnetic attraction for me as I did with her. We fucked in good times, in bad times, and as we grew frustrated with each other, and tired of each other's shit. We fucked as our worlds separated, all the way to the bitter end.
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Post by jetcity on Dec 13, 2017 18:37:06 GMT -5
I would suggest that just about all relationships, as they tank, go sexless. Not just ILIASM deals. I don't believe that there would be too many spouses still rooting each other silly on the courthouse steps as they divorce. It seems that in faltering relationships, sex departs the scene as a matter of course. So I reckon your lawyer is right. It is way more common than you might think. In fact it is probably "usual" by the end stages. Just about all, but not all. The first girl I was sexually active with in a relationship had a magnetic attraction for me as I did with her. We fucked in good times, in bad times, and as we grew frustrated with each other, and tired of each other's shit. We fucked as our worlds separated, all the way to the bitter end. [The night before my ex girlfriend flew home to her parents we did it for hours. Probably the best sex I’ve ever had.
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