"After work today? I'm driving to the airport and jumping on a plane to see ballofconfusion for our 8th weekend together. If neither of us drove to the airport, there wouldn't have been weekend number 1 let alone weekend number 8. If we never had booked the weekends, we wouldn't have gone to the airport. If we never reached out to each other, we never would have booked the flight. Action builds on action. "Zest" doesn't just happen. You don't "obtain" it. It requires action, even when that action is HARD. Without going into great detail, the past week has been really rough for both myself and for ballofconfusion (mostly family stuff). At various points, neither of us felt very "zesty". As a matter of fact, we actually felt kinda shitty and depressed. But I absolutely guarantee that in about 12 hours from now, we are going to be zesty as hell (assuming the idea of driving on the 5 to her place while receiving a blowjob sounds zesty...it sure does to me)."
This weekend was zesty as hell. We had a great time at Balboa Park in San Diego going through a museum and the Japanese Friendship Garden (I even sat and meditated for a little bit). We went a bit nuts on the selfie pics, but we are a couple in love, so sue us! I got not one, but two BJ's while driving her car on the 5 (two different nights). We tried some new sex positions (Jiu Jitsu training comes in handy in some very unexpected ways). We had an amazing conversation about religion / spirituality. She had somewhere between 75 and 100 orgasms and we were both completely spent. I went through some of the financial documents she had, raising some questions about what her STBX was doing on their taxes and on the bank statements.
And, yes, we laughed like goons about how zesty our weekend turned out to be.
Now we have a month before we see each other again (I hate Thanksgiving - yeah, I know the irony in that statement). It is the longest gap we've had since we first met in person back in July. In 2018, we will have our schedules much better aligned. But in the meantime, we are still skype-sleeping every night. We talk on the phone (both naughty and nice). We do the best we can with all the zest we can muster.
Not perfect, but zesty as fuck!
Last Edit: Nov 14, 2017 17:42:02 GMT -5 by shamwow
Sham's Law #1: Everything in life is simple. First you figure out what you want. Second, you figure out how to get it. Third you do it. The first step, unfortunately happens to be the hardest.