Lol! Good for you shamwow and no need to clarify but seriously, from what I’ve read habitual porn usage can wreak havoc on a man’s ability to rise to the occasion. Pretty scary! Guys be careful with that stuff!
No worries on clarifying. I've already spelled out my own particular issues in regard to this in other posts, but thought it would be good to chime in again.
I was referring to the lady boy part haha! I think it’s great that you’re secure enough in your manhood to share your experiences though. Many happy endings to you and ballofconfusion!
Post by GeekGoddess on Nov 6, 2017 22:49:03 GMT -5
ED due to diabetes was one of the original sources of physical issues in my SM. Managing it is very important. Pills are also legit treatment for lack of boner due to the circulation issues that diabetes brings on. And if he hasn’t gotten a prostate check, I’d suggest that too (based on my Ex’s experience). However- you also are not actually obliged to try to help him manage these things. He is an adult- even though he doesn’t seem to know how to act like one.
Post by Frustrated1978 on Nov 6, 2017 23:53:08 GMT -5
Seems you are married to a real prize. Sounds like a classic Narcissist. Probably witholding sex due to what he percieves as an unclean house. The real question is how long are you prepared to tolerate this behaviour?
Post by northstarmom on Nov 7, 2017 7:44:32 GMT -5
“Seems you are married to a real prize. Sounds like a classic Narcissist. Probably witholding sex due to what he percieves as an unclean house. The real question is how long are you prepared to tolerate this behavior”
Worth a repeat. If you feel it is in your interest to remain with him for the time being that doesn’t mean you have to contort yourself to attempt to meet his demands. It doesn’t mean you have to accept or attempt to obtain sex from him. You will never please him. He will be vet be or give you what you want sexually. Acknowlgingvto yourself what kind of man he is and how incompatible the two of you are frees you from disappointment.