Post by WindSister on Oct 24, 2017 11:27:31 GMT -5
Stating the obvious, here, I know, but feels good saying out loud: Kids bring a whole new thing to relationships. Even after 10 years divorced, my husband's daughters had some weirdness. Generally, things have gone "well," but there are moments of weirdness. For sure. Some games are played, without a doubt. I keep quiet, support my husband. That's my role. Whatever relationship I have with them will come over time - and it will take years, I can see. The grandkids, love comes easy. But those two girls with their walls, it will take a lifetime. I have come to accept that. I just do what I do because I want to and let things happen as they may.
With your own kids, it hasn't been that long, so yes, it will take time.
Those who feel lovable, who love, and who experience belonging simply believe they are worthy of love and belonging. - Brene Brown
misssunnybunny: I'm also very sad to see that andie is gone
Oct 22, 2018 16:25:07 GMT -5
jim44444: hmisssunnybunny not only did andie delete her existence here she also deleted her tumblr account. Maybe her hubby found her online postings.
Oct 22, 2018 19:52:59 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Oh, no! Hope she is okay...
Oct 22, 2018 20:00:25 GMT -5
solodriver: I'm sad andie is gone too. She reached out to me when I first joined the group at a time when I was really sick, and talked to me everyday until I was well again and shared a lot of her stories with me.
Oct 22, 2018 20:58:28 GMT -5
isthisit: Apologies for being a techno numpty- can anyone help me to send a PM? When I choose the member as a recipient the error message indicating a staff member is required. Eh?
Nov 6, 2018 15:03:40 GMT -5
solodriver: isthisit you cannot send PMs until your membership changes to member
Nov 6, 2018 21:41:58 GMT -5
isthisit: Thanks solodriver and shynjdude for your replies. Is there some info somewhere about these divisions? I have had a mooch around and haven't come across it yet.
Nov 8, 2018 10:22:28 GMT -5
solodriver: I think it is/was under the Welcome tab, but not sure where.
Nov 8, 2018 21:52:19 GMT -5