Life is good. New house is great. I have a couple of regular lovers and that suits me just fine. I am not wanting any sort of serious relationship at this time. I have learned that there are men out there who don't mind if you are a few pounds overweight of even an old lady like me. Confidence is sexy as hell and when you are firing on all cylinders you attract men.
I am developing a larger circle of friends around me and exploring my new city. Sure in my heart of hearts I would like a serious relationship but if this does't happen for me and what I have right now is the rest of my life then that's okay too. I am traveling and have a supportive family although we are geographically distant.
I see my ex spouse quite regularly. We are the same good friends we were always meant to be. I have forgiven him his affair ( fell apart after a few months) and am even thankful to him for breaking the deadlock that our marriage had become and asked for a divorce. I didn't have the courage at that time to do it myself.
I came out the other side with myself intact. A little battered but a wiser me. Life isn't perfect but it feels good to be living my life authentically. I will never be in sexless relationship again. Its just too important to me. Thanks for listening. Be well.
Post by McRoomMate on Sept 15, 2017 8:39:46 GMT -5
Beautiful post. Beautiful words. But most of all Beautiful YOU. As a Man, YES, I can feel the confidence. You are emanating Confidence, Charm, Seductiveness, and Magnetism all levels - Power of Attraction. Bravo for you !!!
Post by GeekGoddess on Sept 16, 2017 12:39:59 GMT -5
Congratulations my beautiful sister - you're an image of the goddess herself in this photo. You are radiant. Enjoy! *please note that I believe your lovers are "the lucky ones" in this setting. Mwah, you gorgeous you!