Sorry to hear about not getting the job, andie, but you did get an interview. That could mean another job down the road, maybe better than the one that you interviewed for this time. But if this company favors ass kissing over actual performance and job fit, I would get my resume polished and out there. Move if you want, but I'm sure something is there for you in Chicago. Maybe you can get a better job and hire Mr. Silver Fox to work for you!