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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2017 15:35:14 GMT -5
Congratulations to you both. I am finding that when a person endures a SM for a long time, he/she develops characteristics that are veyr attractive to a normal person of the opposite sex.
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Post by Caris on Aug 7, 2017 15:40:33 GMT -5
Congratulations! How wonderful for you both. Wish you much happiness together.
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Post by merrygoround on Aug 7, 2017 16:10:06 GMT -5
Wow I'm rather overwhelmed and thank you all so much for your good wishes. But I'd like to thank nolongerlonely most of all. For everything. I love you darling. For what we have been through, are still going through and may carry with us for some time to come, what I would like to say to all of you here is that we are all givers, empaths and some of the kindest and loving people around. That in spite of the cruelty, rejection and soul-sucking, confidence destroying shit that our previous "relationships" have been, that please don't let it colour the fantastic person you are. I have of course had the most heartfelt conversations with nolongerlonely on a much deeper level and he could have been reduced to a mere shadow of a man. Instead, I have found in him the wittiest, funniest, most thoughtful and generous, kindest, sweetest, loving humans I have ever met. And he's an absolute knock out in the sack! So if I ever had the chance to meet his ex, I'd thank her too and say "damn girl, you don't know what you're missing. Your loss, my gain". Sure there are questions and concerns - am I doing this right? Do you like this? The answer has always been a "hell yesssss!" Lol but the point is, when you're matched with an equal, it's damn fun trying it out. And at least you bloody try and have someone who is willing to try back. And wow, finally being able to be yourself and express what and who you truly are - priceless. Mutual respect. Conversations, not one-sided lectures. And just damn good fun. And finally, happiness. I never thought I would be. Never thought I was worthy of it. But he's changed my world. And I love the bones of him too.
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Post by TMD on Aug 7, 2017 22:25:12 GMT -5
"Happy for both of you!" signed a hopeless romantic. ((this thread is so full of hope turned into reality.))
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Post by lyn on Aug 14, 2017 3:24:00 GMT -5
Yessssss!!!!!! I'm so happy - excited for both of you merrygoround and @nolongerlonely !!!! You two are both so lovely and kind, it's clear in all of your postings - perfect pairing! Hopefully one day soon, you can be together everyday - a true blossoming romance right before our very eyes. Thank you so much for sharing with us! Hugs to you both! Xxxx
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Post by nolongerlonely on Aug 15, 2017 10:00:30 GMT -5
thank you everyone, especially that lovely last comment lyn, thank you so much. I cant wait for every day together, it hurts being apart. We are both such similar characters in so many ways, we both love to laugh and have fun, and I've never felt so wanted in all my life. We are a perfect match, the fact that we both endured an SM as well has just made our mutual understanding towards thoughts and feelings well, incredible. merrygoround is the dream I never thought I'd find, I endured the SM for so long I never ever thought I would find her. But I have. And its all because of this place. I'm blessed. There's no other word for it. xx
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2017 10:37:42 GMT -5
Your story reminds me a little of this old poem, except you have remembered to bloom!
We are like roses that have never bothered to bloom when we should have bloomed and it is as if the sun has become disgusted with waiting
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