An SM in the making Sept 5, 2017 15:09:28 GMT -5
Post by shamwow on Sept 5, 2017 15:09:28 GMT -5
The frequency has gradually come down and is now once every 3-4 weeks generally . It can come across as dutiful particularly the most recent encounter 2 weeks ago. My wife said that she sometimes has zero sex drive. Our marriage is otherwise solid, we have two wonderful and bright kids, a luxury house, only I work, and I am a very hands on dad. The slow journey towards sexlessness is killing me. I was very distressed on the way to work today. She is a wonderful woman and I am not leaving her, certainly until the kids are adults and have reached their potential . Sex is vital to me and I stand tall afterwards for a week or so, even if it's average . I have worked on my mood, practice mindfulness, use a positive thinking app and write a gratitude list everyday. We have everything , but if the 3 weekly sex disappears I will feel that I have nothing. I want to stop cheating but it's becoming more not less likely to happen with every passing day.
Mine got down to monthly, then quarterly, then semi-annually, then annually, then multi-annually, then adios.
Does your wife know you're bisexual, and if she does, when did she find out? If she found out after you got married, it might not exactly be a turn-on for her. Or maybe it is...different strokes and all...