|
Post by DryCreek on Jul 12, 2017 19:46:18 GMT -5
If I were a man I'd have a texting protocol Like a programming language to get in a woman's pussy Well, if you're going to do that, write a bot to handle all the mundane dialog until you get to the good stuff... ;-)
|
|
|
Post by bballgirl on Jul 12, 2017 20:31:06 GMT -5
If I were a man I'd have a texting protocol Like a programming language to get in a woman's pussy Well, if you're going to do that, write a bot to handle all the mundane dialog until you get to the good stuff... ;-) Great idea! Lol You know I'm kidding but my point is men need to have a game plan and women like to be courted and charmed and the guy that texted me today clearly doesn't get that.
|
|
|
Post by hopingforachange on Jul 12, 2017 20:33:33 GMT -5
I'm I'm my 30s and the W shut down any sexting
Me: yeah, how did xyz go? You: oh you remembered, it went good, but abc happened so it messes up stuff at work Me: it sounds like a stressful day I'll be over about 9pm to massage away the stress
How did I do?
|
|
|
Post by bballgirl on Jul 12, 2017 20:36:27 GMT -5
I'm I'm my 30s and the W shut down any sexting Me: yeah, how did xyz go? You: oh you remembered, it went good, but abc happened so it messes up stuff at work Me: it sounds like a stressful day I'll be over about 9pm to massage away the stress How did I do? That's good My response would be I'll be waiting naked in bed for my massage
|
|
|
Post by beachguy on Jul 12, 2017 23:02:48 GMT -5
OK, well I never ever sexted my wife. That ship sailed long before at least she had a smart phone. So I'm still learning too. How about this? Me: How's your day, bballgirl? You: Ok, what's up? Me: I need a BJ How am I doing here? LOL but I really am a lousy sexter ETA: Do they teach this shit in college now? Much better Even if you don't care how I am Pretend that you do If I were a man I'd have a texting protocol Like a programming language to get in a woman's pussy I want to buy your new book! LOL
|
|
|
Post by bballgirl on Jul 13, 2017 5:46:52 GMT -5
Much better Even if you don't care how I am Pretend that you do If I were a man I'd have a texting protocol Like a programming language to get in a woman's pussy I want to buy your new book! LOL I will hand deliver you a copy and take you out for oysters/steamers.
|
|
|
Post by novembercomingfire on Jul 13, 2017 7:37:54 GMT -5
Good response bballgirl. You told him how you felt without condemning him. FWIW, I am not at work and I need a BJ. The W said "Sucks to be you". 😠 I'm laughing and sad for you at the same time. Hugs My wife pulled the "it's good to want things" more than a few times. I absolutely feel your pain.
|
|
|
Post by novembercomingfire on Jul 13, 2017 7:39:50 GMT -5
So I met this man in May he's 50, educated. He is a nice man and a responsible person. We had sex it was good not great, he thinks it's amazing. The entire month of June I blew him off. I did not see him. Ignored texts. I told him I do not feel a romantic connection. He was persistent and it turned me on so I agreed to go out with him again last Sunday. We had a nice evening - better than good sex and then to dinner. So today I get a text from him and I was annoyed because it went straight to sex and you all know that bballgirl is no prude but at least ask me how I am first. The old passive me would have not said anything even if I let it fizzle out but I said screw that so this was the text I sent him: "Hey I've gotta tell you "Hi I'm at work I need a BJ " Does not turn me on. We are Middle Aged and How are you? How is your day? Goes a lot further to start a conversation. Our minds are our biggest sex organs and we are both intelligent people. This is the third time you have texted to me like this. It makes me feel cheap and dirty and not sure we are a match I understand you may be just trying to be funny or flirty but if I don't say anything then shame on me " He apologized and thanked me for saying something. So Go Me! Sticking up for myself and being assertive. I'm not ready to cut bait on this one yet but I do see a shelf life and I have a date with a new guy on Friday night that I'm looking forward to. I am inpressed and most inspired by your ability to clearly and honestly communicate your needs, and maybe more importantly what you won't tolerate. Excellent!
|
|
|
Post by nancyb on Jul 13, 2017 7:49:34 GMT -5
Blah blah blah how's your day? etc then: Sweet bbgirl I've been thinking about last night and your exquisite mouth. Can't wait to see you tonight. (thats the first text)
|
|
|
Post by nancyb on Jul 13, 2017 7:55:52 GMT -5
Later on in the day: Sexily remind her about all the best bits about HER on our date last evening. Let her know that your getting arousing thinking about the two of in bed.
|
|
|
Post by nancyb on Jul 13, 2017 7:58:57 GMT -5
Finally as the time is approaching when you will see her AND she has let you know she likes it begin to tell her more explicitly what you are going to do to her or are looking forward to.
|
|
|
Post by nancyb on Jul 13, 2017 7:59:51 GMT -5
Put the phone away and just fuck. LMAO
|
|
|
Post by bballgirl on Jul 13, 2017 8:08:23 GMT -5
I'm laughing and sad for you at the same time. Hugs My wife pulled the "it's good to want things" more than a few times. I absolutely feel your pain. That's bullshit I'm glad you are done with her I would have stopped paying the electric bill and shut off the water, moved into a hotel for a week and told her "it's good to want things". Total bullshit. Or take her car shopping or whatever gets her off for a day then tell her it's good to want things.
|
|
|
Post by greatcoastal on Jul 13, 2017 8:09:57 GMT -5
Put the phone away and just fuck. LMAO All great advice!! Something I can't see myself doing, right away. 20 some years of living in SM limbo makes me lean far more the other way. Tell me all about your self, your day, your kids, your work, etc.... Sexual compliments? Umm.... ummm..... Not my strong point!
|
|
|
Post by bballgirl on Jul 13, 2017 8:10:35 GMT -5
So I met this man in May he's 50, educated. He is a nice man and a responsible person. We had sex it was good not great, he thinks it's amazing. The entire month of June I blew him off. I did not see him. Ignored texts. I told him I do not feel a romantic connection. He was persistent and it turned me on so I agreed to go out with him again last Sunday. We had a nice evening - better than good sex and then to dinner. So today I get a text from him and I was annoyed because it went straight to sex and you all know that bballgirl is no prude but at least ask me how I am first. The old passive me would have not said anything even if I let it fizzle out but I said screw that so this was the text I sent him: "Hey I've gotta tell you "Hi I'm at work I need a BJ " Does not turn me on. We are Middle Aged and How are you? How is your day? Goes a lot further to start a conversation. Our minds are our biggest sex organs and we are both intelligent people. This is the third time you have texted to me like this. It makes me feel cheap and dirty and not sure we are a match I understand you may be just trying to be funny or flirty but if I don't say anything then shame on me " He apologized and thanked me for saying something. So Go Me! Sticking up for myself and being assertive. I'm not ready to cut bait on this one yet but I do see a shelf life and I have a date with a new guy on Friday night that I'm looking forward to. I am inpressed and most inspired by your ability to clearly and honestly communicate your needs, and maybe more importantly what you won't tolerate. Excellent! Thank you Well I will own it that I did not do that effectively in my marriage. That was the mistake on my part to put up with his bullshit but I will not ever do that again. Fuck me or leave me forever lol
|
|