Post by indianoutlaw on Apr 27, 2016 8:28:26 GMT -5
I Love You, But You Won't Make Love To Me
Folks are on here a lot asking if their refuser spouses truly love them or not.
I think it varies, honestly, because each case is different. Anyway, sometimes when I'm in a pissed-off mood about my SM (although my spouse says every day that she loves me), in my mind I like to finish that sentence for her. So when he/she says, "I love you," maybe our spouses really mean, "I love you, but......1) I won't have sex with you 2) I don't find you attractive 3) I would never consider having kids with you 4) I can't show you as much affection as I give to the family pet 5) I love you, but I'd rather try to beat this next level of Candy Crush than sit next to you on the couch," etc. These can be serious or funny, truthful or ironic, but if anyone else out there wants to add their own ending to "I love you, but...." feel free to post!
Post by timeforliving2 on Apr 27, 2016 21:41:16 GMT -5
Or how about, "I love you like... 1) a brother, 2) a new pair of shoes, 3)________ "
I adopted this TWIST on the traditional Serenity Prayer: "I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept." Life goes on. Time marches on. No more status quo. It's time for living.
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5
worksforme2: doesn't much look like it...
Mar 27, 2019 12:20:10 GMT -5
saarinista: Well, my team is going to the Final Four! I am beyond thrilled. Basketball is life.
Apr 1, 2019 0:47:14 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Congrats! Yay! I don't know how many people see the shout box, I don't think it shows up not he mobile version of the site. Maybe post something in the Off Topic section and more folks may see it?
Apr 1, 2019 15:38:34 GMT -5
wewbwb: Or, maybe baseball season started . . .
Apr 2, 2019 5:27:34 GMT -5
flashjohn: saarinista, my alma mater, Texas Tech, is also in the final four.
Apr 3, 2019 14:59:01 GMT -5
saarinista: : flashjohn Ruh, roh. Then we have to be mortal enemies for the weekend because I went to MSU!
Apr 4, 2019 16:09:20 GMT -5
worksforme2: The add attachment says a max of 1mb...I see plenty of videos that are way longer than that...how do I do that? My video is 4.97 mbs
Apr 25, 2019 20:10:25 GMT -5
h: The videos posted aren't attached. They are links to videos outside the site.
Apr 26, 2019 14:09:04 GMT -5
sexlessinga: Hi guys just joined
May 10, 2019 20:49:28 GMT -5
worksforme2: @mslowmaintenance….long time no see, welcome back...
May 29, 2019 9:30:25 GMT -5
noregretz: You can never outrun a Grizzly bear, but that's ok. You only have to outrun the person you're with....
Jun 15, 2019 12:28:09 GMT -5
solodriver: or in this case your refuser.
Jun 16, 2019 19:21:47 GMT -5