Post by indianoutlaw on Apr 27, 2016 8:28:26 GMT -5
I Love You, But You Won't Make Love To Me
Folks are on here a lot asking if their refuser spouses truly love them or not.
I think it varies, honestly, because each case is different. Anyway, sometimes when I'm in a pissed-off mood about my SM (although my spouse says every day that she loves me), in my mind I like to finish that sentence for her. So when he/she says, "I love you," maybe our spouses really mean, "I love you, but......1) I won't have sex with you 2) I don't find you attractive 3) I would never consider having kids with you 4) I can't show you as much affection as I give to the family pet 5) I love you, but I'd rather try to beat this next level of Candy Crush than sit next to you on the couch," etc. These can be serious or funny, truthful or ironic, but if anyone else out there wants to add their own ending to "I love you, but...." feel free to post!
Post by timeforliving2 on Apr 27, 2016 21:41:16 GMT -5
Or how about, "I love you like... 1) a brother, 2) a new pair of shoes, 3)________ "
I adopted this TWIST on the traditional Serenity Prayer: "I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept." Life goes on. Time marches on. No more status quo. It's time for living.
misssunnybunny: I'm also very sad to see that andie is gone
Oct 22, 2018 16:25:07 GMT -5
jim44444: hmisssunnybunny not only did andie delete her existence here she also deleted her tumblr account. Maybe her hubby found her online postings.
Oct 22, 2018 19:52:59 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Oh, no! Hope she is okay...
Oct 22, 2018 20:00:25 GMT -5
solodriver: I'm sad andie is gone too. She reached out to me when I first joined the group at a time when I was really sick, and talked to me everyday until I was well again and shared a lot of her stories with me.
Oct 22, 2018 20:58:28 GMT -5
isthisit: Apologies for being a techno numpty- can anyone help me to send a PM? When I choose the member as a recipient the error message indicating a staff member is required. Eh?
Nov 6, 2018 15:03:40 GMT -5
solodriver: isthisit you cannot send PMs until your membership changes to member
Nov 6, 2018 21:41:58 GMT -5
isthisit: Thanks solodriver and shynjdude for your replies. Is there some info somewhere about these divisions? I have had a mooch around and haven't come across it yet.
Nov 8, 2018 10:22:28 GMT -5
solodriver: I think it is/was under the Welcome tab, but not sure where.
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