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Post by lwoetin on Oct 15, 2017 20:05:49 GMT -5
You know, I did not really think about it before reading this forum. In general I think it is safer to not have a personal pic up but in this specific situation, I think I want the exposure. I too am sick of hiding the shame. Hmmmm...gotta find a good picture! LOL! ok, your H IS gay. 😟 Lovely pic.🔥
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Post by workingonit on Oct 15, 2017 20:21:35 GMT -5
You know, I did not really think about it before reading this forum. In general I think it is safer to not have a personal pic up but in this specific situation, I think I want the exposure. I too am sick of hiding the shame. Hmmmm...gotta find a good picture! LOL! ok, your H IS gay. 😟 Lovely pic.🔥 Haha! Thanks!
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Post by TMD on Oct 15, 2017 20:26:03 GMT -5
You know, I did not really think about it before reading this forum. In general I think it is safer to not have a personal pic up but in this specific situation, I think I want the exposure. I too am sick of hiding the shame. Hmmmm...gotta find a good picture! LOL! I do know what you mean! I’m beyond tired of having to hide. ((Doesn’t help that I’m still legally married and have a lover. Especially here, it sometimes feels nice to be *more* transparent.))
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Post by h on Oct 17, 2017 11:18:57 GMT -5
I don't like hiding either. I wish I could be more open about all this. It's kind of difficult to post a picture though if you work with the public. If anything I posted ever offended the wrong people, it could mean losing my job. That's why I can't post a real picture. If my career changes, I can always add one later.
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Post by lwoetin on Oct 17, 2017 11:32:25 GMT -5
I don't like hiding either. I wish I could be more open about all this. It's kind of difficult to post a picture though if you work with the public. If anything I posted ever offended the wrong people, it could mean losing my job. That's why I can't post a real picture. If my career changes, I can always add one later. If you dress like a pirate with an eye patch, no one will recognize you.
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Post by hopingforachange on Oct 17, 2017 11:36:29 GMT -5
My W is out of the snooping mode, I will put my pick back up shortly.
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Post by workingonit on Nov 28, 2017 9:50:15 GMT -5
Wow. I was shocked by my h's confession this morning that he was snooping on my posts here. In general I feel like this is a place where I get to vent and get support. I was alone in this process for so long as my h was not engaging and acknowledging my pain. I am really angry and feel violated.
He had one real gripe that I used a real picture and my real name, exposing him to identification as this is an open forum. That was something I did not consider. I am angry at my h and I am sad about our SM but I would not opt to publically shame him. That is something to think about when choosing a profile picture.
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Post by ironhamster on Nov 28, 2017 10:55:12 GMT -5
I may end up doing the same thing in the future. I am intentionally sloppy with my online identity. I think my frustration level has gotten so high that I actually want to get caught.
She is in the process of figuring out what she wants to do for a living. If that involves something where this could damage her reputation, I will do what I can to help her. For me, it will take a lot more than one pic and name change.
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Post by h on Nov 30, 2017 6:13:00 GMT -5
Wow. I was shocked by my h's confession this morning that he was snooping on my posts here. In general I feel like this is a place where I get to vent and get support. I was alone in this process for so long as my h was not engaging and acknowledging my pain. I am really angry and feel violated. He had one real gripe that I used a real picture and my real name, exposing him to identification as this is an open forum. That was something I did not consider. I am angry at my h and I am sad about our SM but I would not opt to publically shame him. That is something to think about when choosing a profile picture. You publicly shaming him vs. him privately shaming you every fucking day till death do us part (yes we feel shame in rejection) fair comparison?? Mr. workingonit : why don’t you create a profile and respond to what I just said? Yeah! Bring Mr. workingonit here and let him defend himself! Let him lay out his case for ruining his spouse's life by breaking their marriage vows and he can beg mercy from the court of ILIASM.
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Post by M2G on Dec 2, 2017 5:54:53 GMT -5
I don't like hiding either. I wish I could be more open about all this. It's kind of difficult to post a picture though if you work with the public. If anything I posted ever offended the wrong people, it could mean losing my job. That's why I can't post a real picture. If my career changes, I can always add one later. Yeah, that's the reason I took mine down as well. I was thinking though, if someone recognized me, then the odds would be good that they would be in a similar situation - but I took it down anyway. No use creating MORE problems in my life..
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Post by surfergirl on Jan 11, 2018 10:47:21 GMT -5
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Post by ModCasper on Jan 12, 2018 13:45:10 GMT -5
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Post by whuffo on Jan 13, 2018 13:20:52 GMT -5
Two words for you.... WOW!!!!
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Post by whuffo on Jan 14, 2018 12:41:49 GMT -5
Surfergirl, thanks for making my day. That's 100% more than I've seen my wife in lingerie in the last 10 years!
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Post by surfergirl on Jan 14, 2018 13:32:13 GMT -5
whuffo Thank you. But let's have a proper discussion and talk about why I can't get laid if that's what I really look like.
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