Post by indianoutlaw on Apr 19, 2016 5:09:44 GMT -5
I Am Not Looking Forward To Valentine's Day
I am not looking forward to another card or a book on Valentine's Day. It was better in middle school getting rejected by the cute girl in class, than to be rejected by your spouse for 5 or 6 years in a row. I bought her flowers, candy, steak dinner, roses at work, etc. last year and in return, I got a book (non-romantic book) and a peck on the lips. Really?
Since it's been over 10 months anyways (including our anniversary), I don't know how I'd respond if she did want to be intimate. At least single folks might have the possibility to find someone to share Valentine's with....when you're in a sexless marriage, you're alone AND trapped. Feb. 11, 2014
.when you're in a sexless marriage, you're alone AND trapped. Feb. 11, 2014 [/quote]
That's exactly how I felt - trapped and lonely like I was in prison. It's good that you are in therapy. Life is short and celibacy should not have to be an option for anyone. If you need your wife to go to marriage counseling because there is a problem with the marriage then you should be able to ask her to go. If she won't go then it speaks to how much she cares about the marriage. The last few years of my marriage I asked my refuser to go to marriage counseling 3 times. Everytime he said NO! I wasn't going to force him. I don't believe in making anyone do something that they don't want to and that includes SEX. I don't want you to have sex with me, I want you to want to have sex with me. So the whole thing really wasn't working, long story short, I asked him for a divorce Sept 2015 and then he wanted to go to marriage counseling, too little too late and we were divorced in January 2016. I've been Paroled!
I don't want you to have sex with me, I want you to want to have sex with me.
Soooo true. That's why I completely do not get interested in 'duty sex' - just really can't go through with it.
More power to you for getting out of jail!
Yes I will never subject myself to reset sex again, probably will never get married for that same reason. Have to be able to end a relationship quickly when it has run it's course. Thank you I'm happy to be free.
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
Jan 25, 2019 22:36:50 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5
tamara68: Today it's steak and blowjob day! I suppose the steak is for those who don't get a blowjob.
Mar 14, 2019 16:49:49 GMT -5
petrushka: tamara68 Laughing with tears in my eyes. And my steak is going to be semolina gruel, due to some tummy upset :-\
Mar 15, 2019 1:11:10 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: So sad to hear the news from New Zealand. Boston Strong supports Kiwi Strong!!
Mar 15, 2019 7:46:22 GMT -5
petrushka: I was gobsmacked when I heard. This is just not us. In all of 2017 we had 37 murders in the country ..... I think the echo chambers of "social media" have a lot to answer for.
Mar 15, 2019 18:45:45 GMT -5
baza: Feeling for our Brothers and Sisters across the ditch Brother petrushka .
Mar 15, 2019 19:27:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: petrushka, I thought I read the headline wrong (this stuff happens here, not in NZ). It is frightening the hate that is being spread; it makes my heart hurt.
Mar 15, 2019 20:46:54 GMT -5
saarinista: All of us, IMHO, should try to be civil and kind as much as possible in person and online. I actively Tweet (civilly) on political matters and am horrified by the rancor & trolling on both sides of the spectrum, which only inflames unstable people.
Mar 19, 2019 23:21:20 GMT -5
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5