Post by indianoutlaw on Apr 19, 2016 5:08:06 GMT -5
I Am Lonely Again And Feel Trapped
I am tired of being lonely in my marriage....I didn't even realize that I was in a sexless marriage until this year. I'm 35 years old, and out of 14 years together, the last 6 have been lonely and pretty unloving. Very little sex or physical contact. Everything else is pretty good. Just having a rough time right now. Don't feel like going into detail on my first post. Just trying to break the ice and get it out there.
Been in therapy by myself for a while and it helps a little. Just don't know how long I can last being in a celibate marriage. It's not the most important thing to me, but I miss any intimate connection with my wife. I haven't got enough courage to interrupt my life and hers and try to force her into therapy and try to work this thing out. Just having a hard night tonight....good and bad days. Glad to have an outlet. Just tired of her playing on the computer and reading a couple hours a day, but can't spend 2 hours a year on intimacy with her husband....Jan. 25, 2014
choosinghappy: Hope you had a great birthday h!
Sept 1, 2018 21:19:34 GMT -5
mrrobot: Hi guys, I don't know if this community is still active - if so, I posted a thread at the forum if anyone could give me some light I'd be really thankful! Cheers
Sept 2, 2018 7:48:17 GMT -5
georgia: Hi...I’ve just joined the group. And I simply need a place to vent and hopefully receive some help dealing with my utterly sexless marriage. After 15 years of marriage our sex life has dwindled to nada, zero, nothing.
Sept 3, 2018 14:48:18 GMT -5
kh: why even marry someone with a high libido if you hate sex
Sept 4, 2018 4:28:42 GMT -5
javba: kh - fast forward 2 kids and 20 years later I have not resolved the problem you're looking at. Now I have cracked 51 yrs, have lesser chances of finding someone, not as market-able. You may want to reconsider "child is 8 mon old" with a 50% divorce rate
Sept 4, 2018 10:07:57 GMT -5
DryCreek: mrrobot, georgia, kh - welcome! I see a couple of you have posted your stories in the forum. I think not a lot of folks use this chat because you can only see it on laptops, not on phones. georgia, please do post your story and vent here. We get it.
Sept 6, 2018 10:29:43 GMT -5