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Post by JonDoe on Nov 20, 2016 7:17:47 GMT -5
DryCreek I agree, it totally sucks. I'm going through similar angst over the laws and financial impact to my future. It's the indefinitely part that has me so worked up at the moment. My wife has a much higher earning potential than her current salary. In fact, she made twice as much over 20 years ago, and that's even before adjusting for inflation, but she only wanted a very easy 9-5 job when she returned to the workforce. However, the judge clearly won't see it that the way.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 20, 2016 10:11:33 GMT -5
I think I would rather be stabbed in the chest than indulge the brief peck on the cheek. Fortunately for me, i am no longer worthy of even that.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 20, 2016 12:02:04 GMT -5
It's probably just as well. I'm pretty sure I have forgotten how anyway.
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Post by warmways on Nov 22, 2016 11:37:34 GMT -5
This morning he just stood there looking at me before leaving for work. I asked if he wanted a hug. He said he did but didn't he get a kiss too? I said it felt weird because we're not intimate in any other ways. He said we have to start somewhere and I was like let's talk about it later.
He's trying to make me feel guilty for not giving him the five second goodbye kiss when for most of our marriage I've done everything I could think of to get him to be close to me emotionally and physically but I couldn't break through I finally gave up that he woasnt ever going to fuck me or do stuff with me or spend time with me so how can he think that all his refusals don't have an impact. He's making it Iall about me now being the refuser. I gave him almost sixteen years of chances. It's so frustrating. I know, I need to shore up my exit plan.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 22, 2016 11:46:30 GMT -5
This morning he just stood there looking at me before leaving for work. I asked if he wanted a hug. He said he did but didn't he get a kiss too? I said it felt weird because we're not intimate in any other ways. He said we have to start somewhere and I was like let's talk about it later. He's trying to make me feel guilty for not giving him the five second goodbye kiss when for most of our marriage I've done everything I could think of to get him to be close to me emotionally and physically but I couldn't break through I finally gave up that he woasnt ever going to fuck me or do stuff with me or spend time with me so how can he think that all his refusals don't have an impact. He's making it Iall about me now being the refuser. I gave him almost sixteen years of chances. It's so frustrating. I know, I need to shore up my exit plan. Wow. I had this exact experience today. With the added bonus of commentary on how I have a problem with being disconnected and distant for no reason.
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Post by solodriver on Sept 2, 2019 22:26:07 GMT -5
Good point Baz. I'll ask hot how much and when she needs to be paid. I know what are net assets are. My concern was that I wouldn't be able to pay her until after the divorce when I believe she'd need compensation throughout the process. The attorney I consulted with back in May said she wouldn't take me based on my financials because she was afraid I wouldn't be able to pay her. And she told me a lot of attorneys would tell me that.
Another reason I'v e had to prolong my exit plan until I get the debts under control and paid down. It's happening, but so slow a process.
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Post by nyctos on Sept 3, 2019 19:04:20 GMT -5
This morning he just stood there looking at me before leaving for work. I asked if he wanted a hug. He said he did but didn't he get a kiss too? I said it felt weird because we're not intimate in any other ways. He said we have to start somewhere and I was like let's talk about it later. He's trying to make me feel guilty for not giving him the five second goodbye kiss when for most of our marriage I've done everything I could think of to get him to be close to me emotionally and physically but I couldn't break through I finally gave up that he woasnt ever going to fuck me or do stuff with me or spend time with me so how can he think that all his refusals don't have an impact. He's making it Iall about me now being the refuser. I gave him almost sixteen years of chances. It's so frustrating. I know, I need to shore up my exit plan. Fucking. Asshole. I'd be tempted to drink urine first just so I could spit it into his mouth.
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Post by warmways on Sept 3, 2019 19:13:22 GMT -5
😆. Thank Goodness I’m outta there. No more games.
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