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Post by wewbwb on Sept 18, 2016 12:11:43 GMT -5
I have woken up several times to rubbing my thigh or my bare stomach. Please say that again, slowly. ....
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Post by becca on Sept 18, 2016 12:35:06 GMT -5
I have woken up several times to rubbing my thigh or my bare stomach. Please say that again, slowly. .... haha...to him rubbing my thigh or bare stomach. If it's me, no problem. I know I will see it through to a satisfying end!
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 18, 2016 12:50:08 GMT -5
Please say that again, slowly. .... haha...to him rubbing my thigh or bare stomach. If it's me, no problem. I know I will see it through to a satisfying end! What's an exposed thigh or a bare stomach? My STBX has been wearing a bra, grannie panties, shorts and a full t- shirt to bed for years now. Then there's the pillow between her legs and two folded pillows up near her face with elbows sticking in my face and backside. Once in a while I get the privilege of her ice cold feet.
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Post by becca on Sept 18, 2016 12:57:06 GMT -5
haha...to him rubbing my thigh or bare stomach. If it's me, no problem. I know I will see it through to a satisfying end! What's an exposed thigh or a bare stomach? My STBX has been wearing a bra, grannie panties, shorts and a full t- shirt to bed for years now. Then there's the pillow between her legs and two folded pillows up near her face with elbows sticking in my face and backside. Once in a while I get the privilege of her ice cold feet. A bra to bed? No, I get too hot at night for all that. The least amount the better. Sounds like your STBX builds a cocoon.
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 18, 2016 13:00:18 GMT -5
What's an exposed thigh or a bare stomach? My STBX has been wearing a bra, grannie panties, shorts and a full t- shirt to bed for years now. Then there's the pillow between her legs and two folded pillows up near her face with elbows sticking in my face and backside. Once in a while I get the privilege of her ice cold feet. A bra to bed? No, I get too hot at night for all that. The least amount the better. Sounds like your STBX builds a cocoon. The Great Wall of Refuser!
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Post by iceman on Sept 19, 2016 13:17:12 GMT -5
The only physical contact I get without forcing the issue and just grabbing her is when my wife is upset and wants to be comforted. I'm supposed to be her security blanket. Don't get me wrong. I get that comforting my wife when she's upset, had a bad day, etc. is indeed my "job". It's any spouse's job. But that's all there is with my wife. Affection happens when something negative happen. There's no positive affection. No affection because she wants to touch me, feel our bodies against each other because we desire each other and it feels good. She affection she needs and gives feels platonic.
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Post by deleted on Sept 19, 2016 13:34:28 GMT -5
What's an exposed thigh or a bare stomach? My STBX has been wearing a bra, grannie panties, shorts and a full t- shirt to bed for years now. Then there's the pillow between her legs and two folded pillows up near her face with elbows sticking in my face and backside. Once in a while I get the privilege of her ice cold feet. Mine wears full pajamas and a bra. She has dogs strategically placed dogs or between us. When I want to be close to her, I just go downstairs and sleep on the couch.
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Post by Dan on Sept 19, 2016 13:36:03 GMT -5
The Great Wall of Refuser!
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Post by becca on Sept 19, 2016 14:12:41 GMT -5
The Great Wall of Refuser! I am thinking a lot of men would brave the electric fence but that bear trap...a definite deal breaker!
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Post by Dan on Sept 19, 2016 14:14:05 GMT -5
Just curious... those of us here are severely lacking in the bedroom, but I wonder how many of us get at least SOME physical affection. If you are in a SM or were in one, did you at least get some casual snuggling? I find ALL kinds of physical affection to be lacking for me. I'm a snuggly dude so I really miss that stuff in addition to the sex. For most of our seven sexless years, we did at least enjoy spooning, light stroking of hair, etc, when in bed. We would also sort of intertwine legs, depending what position we where in. But I also longed for touching and caressing while watching TV, or other loving touch through out the house and even when we were out. But she has her own "chair" in the family room; heaven forbid that she consider sitting next to me! About a year ago was our last attempt at sex. It was just awkward, and half-hearted on both our parts. As far as I can tell, I gave up then. I haven't been interested in any sort of cuddling or making out with her since, let alone sex. So without me to initiate, guess what: none has happened.
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 19, 2016 14:18:37 GMT -5
I am thinking a lot of men would brave the electric fence but that bear trap...a definite deal breaker! The perspective, and scale is off, he still has half the bed! ( this is one of my favorites!) sadly there's to much truth in it!
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Post by Dan on Sept 19, 2016 14:30:22 GMT -5
I am thinking a lot of men would brave the electric fence but that bear trap...a definite deal breaker! I'm telling you: I miss pleasuring a woman orally SO badly, if I knew there was a willing p*ssy on the other side of that trap, I just might risk it. I'll come up with some excuse about the puncture marks on my forehead and chin by the time I get to work on Monday...
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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 19, 2016 14:51:16 GMT -5
I am thinking a lot of men would brave the electric fence but that bear trap...a definite deal breaker! The perspective, and scale is off, he still has half the bed! ( this is one of my favorites!) sadly there's to much truth in it! Let me add that The genders can easily be reversed, Time to pull out the drawing pad!
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Post by darktippedrose on Sept 19, 2016 14:58:39 GMT -5
two years ago I got a really stiff and awkward hug. thats it.
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Post by solodriver on Sept 19, 2016 15:04:42 GMT -5
two years ago I got a really stiff and awkward hug. thats it. They are the worse. Why did they even bother? When that happened to me I just said "Message Received!"
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