Fortunately that is the rule in our parenting plan, these things have to be agreed upon in advance. All part of our 50/50 joint custody. My ex continues to violate court orders. (something she got away with all during our divorce, it never made it before the judge- that and freud) This is where Our Family Wizard will help me when and if it goes back to court. Proof that there is nothing documented to show prior communication in advance. What does get documented is me pointing out to my ex her lack of communication and her doing whatever she pleases then giving me half the bill.
She can give you half of the bill but it does not mean you have to pay it. Respond and document that the dr visit was not agreed upon in advance and you will not agree to paying for that.
Thank you that's my take on it. However my son's treatment is necessary and,i will pay my half , but I demand a say in all future appointments.
It's a very emotional event. I feel like I lost my 4th boy! (One moved away and the other two side with their mom. She has the money)
I am so aware of being the victim. I try not to constantly sound like one. Who wants to be around that for very long? I don't like playing the victim card (I want it to be the past) then things keep happening and I need to talk about it.
worksforme2: hey nancyb, how are things perkolating with the older gentleman you spoke of a while back?
Jul 28, 2018 18:25:32 GMT -5
nancyb: worksforme2: Relationship died when we had a difference in opinion regarding UFO's and extraterrestrial beings. LOL I weighed in on the nay side and he believed they walk amongst us.
Jul 30, 2018 5:51:07 GMT -5
bc: I can’t stop laughing...go ahead, micromanage and analyze that marriage and see what she will do for you.
Jul 30, 2018 8:17:58 GMT -5
Dan: I think I'd have to see how good a new girlfriend was in the sack before I crossed her off the list -- or kicked her out of bed -- for believing in UFOs. I guess that makes me... male!
Jul 30, 2018 21:25:05 GMT -5
solodriver: It's been so long for me, I might see UFOs my first time. lol
Jul 31, 2018 1:42:47 GMT -5
beachguy: nancyb: He's right. It's all in the X Files, if you care to look.
Jul 31, 2018 3:45:13 GMT -5
nancyb: Dan: It was a tough decision, he was a good lover but the craziness ended things. Been dating since but nothing serious. I paint a lot.
Jul 31, 2018 5:57:00 GMT -5
petrushka: Thing is, someone being a fruit-loop about something like UFOs usually is not confined to one area; even if it is not immediately obvious. People who are nutty about one thing can go off at a tangent any time, I found (...out the hard way).
Jul 31, 2018 7:39:29 GMT -5
greatcoastal: nancyb: Sounds like you Identified a Fucking Object for what it truly is!
Jul 31, 2018 8:25:25 GMT -5
worksforme2: nancyb,...I am going to paint my living room soon as I can decide on the color.
Jul 31, 2018 19:15:08 GMT -5
worksforme2: When it comes to UFO's we always hear about "little green men", why are there never any "little green women"?
Aug 1, 2018 6:21:15 GMT -5
solodriver: I think I recall an episode of "Lost In Space where Dr. Smith was being chased by a green woman
Aug 1, 2018 21:29:17 GMT -5