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newBookmarkLockedFalling Gottman article: When breaking up is the healthiest choice
elynne 7 445 by flyingsolo
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Put a ring on it?
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greatcoastal 23 984 by ihadalove
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to tell if you are being gaslighted
shynjdude 3 300 by baza
Jul 3, 2018 18:15:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How could the discovery of adultery impact my divorce?
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choosinghappy 15 798 by flyingsolo
Jul 3, 2018 14:37:27 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling You're allowed
bballgirl 4 424 by flashjohn
Jun 20, 2018 11:52:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sueing for sexual damages in France
hopingforachange 13 441 by baza
Jun 13, 2018 23:29:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling More women paying alimony.
greatcoastal 3 298 by greatcoastal
Jun 6, 2018 12:43:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Having a "Dismissive Avoidant" Spouse
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choosinghappy 19 1,076 by flyingsolo
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Another article about love languages
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smartkat 20 956 by elynne
May 29, 2018 15:00:06 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Do you apologize at inanimate objects?
greatcoastal 3 304 by greatcoastal
May 18, 2018 8:45:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Good article on Buddhist Attachment Theory
bballgirl 2 411 by padgemi
May 8, 2018 20:34:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Circular arguments, Emotional Reasoning and JADE
greatcoastal 2 301 by GeekGoddess
May 1, 2018 10:37:44 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Don't get married if....
greatcoastal 2 400 by northstarmom
Apr 28, 2018 10:16:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Neurotypical married to a partner on the autism spectrum.
elynne 11 380 by choosinghappy
Apr 26, 2018 6:24:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Starting over after divorce.
greatcoastal 0 267 by greatcoastal
Apr 20, 2018 11:20:01 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Good article - Mark Manson
bballgirl 3 346 by lwoetin
Apr 20, 2018 1:11:41 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Six Kinds of love
WindSister 2 390 by lwoetin
Apr 18, 2018 12:03:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Non attachment and happiness
bballgirl 1 343 by WindSister
Apr 10, 2018 8:06:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Talking to your spouse about rejection.
elynne 1 458 by baza
Apr 10, 2018 1:31:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling dealing with a narcissist and why you are a perfect match
tamara68 3 311 by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo
Apr 7, 2018 22:21:19 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Solving Men's social isolation.
greatcoastal 4 617 by Vitruvius
Apr 3, 2018 3:21:20 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Married sex:What is okay with God?
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greatcoastal 30 1,333 by csl
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Ask What, Not Why
WindSister 14 774 by bballgirl
Mar 28, 2018 18:12:25 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Attachment Styles influence your sex life
elynne 4 393 by northstarmom
Mar 28, 2018 16:45:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling TEDx: No-Sex Marriage - Maureen McGrath
DryCreek 2 401 by elle
Mar 22, 2018 5:31:26 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling website: "The Feminine Woman"
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Mar 18, 2018 20:20:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Magic Lists helping you get what you want
WindSister 4 434 by WindSister
Mar 9, 2018 12:06:52 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Article: Law of Attracting Trojan Horses - Martha Beck
WindSister 2 309 by elynne
Mar 8, 2018 6:04:22 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Men vs. Women with the Four Needs
choosinghappy 11 515 by johnwyo1
Mar 7, 2018 7:35:53 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Be Honest: How to do what you really want / Martha Beck
WindSister 0 322 by WindSister
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solodriver: Thanks warmways :) Oct 30, 2019 23:36:15 GMT -5
RealMustangGuy: When using a member's username in a post, how does one get it to be in different color and work as a link? I can type in the name but after posting it doesn't look the same as when others use member's usernames in their posts. Nov 2, 2019 11:37:25 GMT -5
bfar: Just stumbled on this article:https://masculinebydesign.com/sexless-marriage-is-symptomatic-of-emasculated-husbands/ was more than a little disconcerting. Are we digging ourselves further in the hole by trying to be all enlightened and sensitive? Nov 3, 2019 13:46:42 GMT -5
petrushka: Mate, what's the alternative to all enlightened and sensitive here? Rape? Coercion? Sexual assault? Thanks, but I can do better than being a complete arsehole (or psychopath for that matter). Nov 3, 2019 21:11:53 GMT -5
bfar: Petrushka... I'm just wondering if we shot ourselves in the foot, as it were, by giving giving up on our strength, and giving in to the feminist agenda of making men irrelevant. Nov 5, 2019 11:30:21 GMT -5
petrushka: Sorry, I don't buy into that at all. I'm not giving up anything. I've been into the "feminist agenda" for nearly 60 years. Having an empowered partner empowers me. I want strong women around me who take responsibility for themselves and who can face me Nov 5, 2019 17:20:16 GMT -5
petrushka: I see 'strong men', and controlling bullies, as basically weak, lacking confidence and self esteem -- hence they think they need to assert themselves that way. I loathe patriarchy as much as matriarchy. Partners should be equals. Nov 5, 2019 17:24:43 GMT -5
petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there. Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label. Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar. Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5 *
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works. Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5 *
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345 Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Me too. Nov 19, 2019 12:43:24 GMT -5
Vitruvius: I miss them all and more & at t he same time hope they never come back (because they've moved onto something better, fingers crossed). Nov 22, 2019 6:31:24 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Happy Birthday baza!!! Hope you had a wonderful day Nov 22, 2019 18:17:50 GMT -5
greatcoastal: Happy Birthday baza! Thanks for your wisdom, confidence, advice, knowledge, and great sense of humor!! Nov 23, 2019 16:56:02 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy birthday baza...watch out for those fires... Nov 24, 2019 13:20:40 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Thanksgiving to all,....take care not to eat too much turkey today. Save some to make turkey pot pie for between the 2 holidays. Nov 28, 2019 7:07:37 GMT -5
nyctos: Lucky me. I had W policing my food intake during the holiday. Dec 1, 2019 21:40:35 GMT -5