Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Some decisions
cassiopeia92 2 237 by cassiopeia92
May 23, 2019 8:30:10 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My past and my future
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cassiopeia92 28 758 by worksforme2
May 23, 2019 7:45:09 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying and choosing to outsource.
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Rhapsodee 50 2,399 by angeleyes65
May 12, 2019 9:43:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A useful read?
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lessingham 17 905 by elynne
Apr 18, 2019 1:56:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The secret to “staying” successfully
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Dan 29 2,240 by firefollower
Mar 27, 2019 12:08:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Loneliness
smith227 14 427 by theexplorer
Mar 25, 2019 10:25:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Just a thought for today.
jim44444 3 302 by northstarmom
Mar 15, 2019 9:35:28 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Remind me again
smith227 4 468 by Handy
Feb 17, 2019 22:55:57 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling If your spouse agreed, would you even want to?
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rich 27 1,435 by jim44444
Feb 4, 2019 2:59:21 GMT -5
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lwoetin 0 292 by lwoetin
Feb 1, 2019 1:07:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is a fresh start really possible?
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whynotm3 16 788 by saarinista
Jan 1, 2019 20:24:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Numb / Shutting Down
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whynotm3 37 1,595 by muzack
Dec 23, 2018 0:36:08 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The stay or leave dichotomy
catsloveme 13 671 by whynotm3
Dec 21, 2018 21:21:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying, because we can forgive each other
lwoetin 11 405 by lwoetin
Dec 21, 2018 14:14:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Separate bedrooms?
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xfoo 37 1,553 by darktippedrose
Dec 18, 2018 15:52:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Without sex and intimacy, is it a marriage?
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tooyoungtobeold 37 2,215 by h
Dec 10, 2018 10:44:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A little help from my friends
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workingonit 17 1,138 by misssunnybunny
Nov 24, 2018 11:30:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Choosing to stay...so far.
davth1701 7 517 by jamesbonding
Nov 15, 2018 23:29:42 GMT -5
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Poll: If your spouse suddenly wanted regular sex....
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shynjdude 37 1,439 by Dan
Oct 10, 2018 15:44:51 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling my soul is screaming
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frednsa 18 1,063 by northstarmom
Oct 9, 2018 8:25:24 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The options
shynjdude 2 340 by baza
Oct 2, 2018 22:04:20 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Perfect is the enemy of good
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jgb 26 967 by Caris
Oct 2, 2018 21:15:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The stay or stay dichotomy
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Dan 18 946 by Handy
Sept 29, 2018 0:43:46 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A new situation.
Rhapsodee 8 429 by gogogate
Sept 23, 2018 23:19:06 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Who is staying?
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lostsoul 53 1,953 by solodriver
Sept 21, 2018 19:18:31 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When you notice other things
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sweetplumeria 28 1,164 by elkclan2
Sept 18, 2018 10:21:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Anniversary Blues
javba 6 381 by javba
Sept 6, 2018 5:35:07 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Feeling bullied?
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flashjohn 23 868 by solodriver
Sept 2, 2018 22:41:01 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Coping
baza 8 428 by greatcoastal
Aug 23, 2018 11:39:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Silver lining...
catsloveme 13 537 by tooyoungtobeold
Aug 16, 2018 15:20:28 GMT -5

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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there. Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label. Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar. Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5 *
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works. Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5 *
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345 Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Me too. Nov 19, 2019 12:43:24 GMT -5
Vitruvius: I miss them all and more & at t he same time hope they never come back (because they've moved onto something better, fingers crossed). Nov 22, 2019 6:31:24 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Happy Birthday baza!!! Hope you had a wonderful day Nov 22, 2019 18:17:50 GMT -5
greatcoastal: Happy Birthday baza! Thanks for your wisdom, confidence, advice, knowledge, and great sense of humor!! Nov 23, 2019 16:56:02 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy birthday baza...watch out for those fires... Nov 24, 2019 13:20:40 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Thanksgiving to all,....take care not to eat too much turkey today. Save some to make turkey pot pie for between the 2 holidays. Nov 28, 2019 7:07:37 GMT -5
nyctos: Lucky me. I had W policing my food intake during the holiday. Dec 1, 2019 21:40:35 GMT -5
worksforme2: My dog does most of the policing during the holidays. Drop some turkey or ham, don't worry about it. It will be gone before you can look down. Dec 24, 2019 13:49:37 GMT -5
petrushka: Happy new year everybody. Dec 31, 2019 6:55:49 GMT -5
worksforme2: Well it's 1am. I was sleeping soundly until an hour ago and then all the fireworks and guns stared going off. Jan 1, 2020 1:06:02 GMT -5
tamara68: Happy New year! Jan 3, 2020 18:46:57 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Happy Birthday !! :) Jan 18, 2020 18:54:45 GMT -5
petrushka: Thank you! Had a great party with the boardgamers group (and BBQ, cakes and cards!) Jan 18, 2020 20:14:00 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! Sounds like a wonderful way to celebrate Jan 18, 2020 22:10:28 GMT -5